So it's Halloween almost! That happy time of year when people come out of the woodwork to wear problematic costumes that we're all supposed to not notice are totally and completely unacceptable. Hey, newsflash-a person's culture isn't a costume. "Sexy Cantina Girl" or "Sexy Geisha", not cool. Goes double for "Illegal Alien" (you're not clever) or don't even get me started on the "Suicide Bomber" costume I saw ON A CHILD.
Seriously, there are so many things you can wear that are CLEVER, being racist, sexist or homophobic is not only unnecessary, it's demeaning and stupid. So don't do it.
That said, I was pretty pleased with
my and Sam's costumes, even if only for the party. Too much make up for one Sam.
Tell me the worst costumes you guys have seen. Let's make a list of good and bad costume ideas for those floundering so they don't make a problematic choice.
Private to SamHey. I'm sorry about...you know. I hope today is better. I love you.
Private to Logan and LillyI'm sorry I didn't take the news better. Congrats though. And I want to be there for you guys, and I hope you'll still agree to be a part of the wedding. It might...be a couple days before I fully process things, but I still care about you both. I just wish it hadn't happened like that