
Tomorrow is Goodland's
National Adoption Day. Shout out to all adoptive parents, step-parents, foster parents, bonus parents, butlers --- you get the idea. Yinsen, the doctor who saved my life in Afghanistan, asked me if I had a family back home. I hesitated, but said no because my parents had long been gone by that point. Hell, I may have said no even if they were alive. It, however, wasn't quite true. Three people greeted me on my return to the states --- the three people who have stood by me for far longer than any sane person would. Pepper, Rhodey, and Happy were family, but I was too much of a shit head to admit it then.
Too scared to admit it. Joining the Avengers showed me another sort of family. Dysfunctional, sure, but family nonetheless. I usually felt like the red-headed stepchild, but that started to change
near the end of--- during the time heist. My daughter, of course, showed me I could somehow not screw up a kid's life, but a certain young man started planting those seeds several years earlier. Mentoring Peter is something I will never regret. I fucked up sometimes, but we all do. He still showed me that fatherhood could be in the cards for me. Now I'm here. I'm lucky. I have Pepper and Rhodey and many of the Avengers. However, I also have bonus kids I love more than anything.
Hang in there, bonus parents. It is not always easy being a stand-in, but no one said family was easy. Still, as often as it is messy and hard, it is pretty damn good.