It is in the nature of Quendi that we love only once, and eternally. It's said, and I truly believe it, that those we are bonded to in love are chosen long before we are even born, and that by falling in love we are merely answering to that predestiny. Once bonded, that bond is unbreakable, and it will endure for all eternity, even after rebirth.
Once an elf has found his true love, he will never find another.
Sometimes, the bond of love is found in unexpected places. As a child, I was sure of one thing; that I would fall in love with a beautiful elven maiden, marry her, and eventually succeed my father as king, and she would be queen by my side. It never occurred to me that the one to whom I was to be bonded would be my own cousin, a male cousin. The Noldor of the First Age believed such a union to be perverted and monstrous. My answer to that is, that if our bond was chosen by the Valar themselves, then clearly
they did not disapprove.
The trouble with an unbreakable bond is that you can't break it even if you want to.
The one to whom I am bonded is gone, and I do not know if I shall ever see him again. Perhaps not, in this lifetime, until we are reborn again. But the strength of our love is that I may never forget, and may never love another in his place.
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