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That feeling when you've had a song stuck in your head for two days straight and you have no idea what it is or where you've heard it before.

It might be legitimately driving me crazy.

PANEM PEOPLE

Let's do lunch or dinner again. Our place this time. This weekend?

Also, as a warning, I've got someone new on this filter that happens to also be having dreams from that place like the rest of us. If you're concerned about someone new knowing about all of this or whatever, you now know. I kind of figure we're all in this together, though.

It's almost cherry blossom time. I'd be counting down the days if I actually knew the exact number. I'm definitely ready for the tree in the backyard to bloom.

KNOWN PANEM PEOPLE

Would you guys be interested in having dinner together? Maybe at my house? It could be like a potluck or something.

REED SIBLINGS GROUP TEXT

» Any of you interested in coming to see Us with me this weekend?

LGBTQ GROUP

Since the weather is finally starting to warm up, I was thinking out next group activity could be something out of doors. Group hike? Mini golf tournament? Big picnic down at the park? What do you guys think?

Did you know that, in the 13th century, Pope Gregory IV declared cats to be instruments of Satan and, on his extermination orders, his followers set out to annihilate them throughout Europe? But what came after that, I ask you? That's right, ding ding ding, the The Plague. Had they not destroyed the cat population, the plague-carrying rat population likely would not have been able to spread like it did. So the lesson to be learned from history today is to give your kitties a little extra love, otherwise you will catch the plague and die. Sorry, I don't make the rules.

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It's been one week, and that time has flown by all too quickly. We've been home for a few days, but taking some time to ourselves.

Astrid Hope Stone, you are every perfect dream come true.

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We are a few days into what is (hopefully?!) the last semester of my undergraduate career.

Whaaaaaat??? It's gone by so fast.

LGBTQ FRIENDS (not including Francis this time ;) ):

Sooooooo... these dreams and all that. Has anyone's dreams not matched up with, you know, your own sexuality, gender identity, etc? It's not making me question anything I feel (yet?), but I know what's probably coming, so I was curious how other people have felt about it. And what if I meet someone who's dreaming about Arwen one day and they have expectations? Am I worrying about stuff that's just not going to be as weird as I'm worried about?

FRANCIS:

Hi. I just wanted to say I really like you.

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I did it. It might have taken much longer than I care to admit and I may have smashed my thumb an unreasonable amount of times with the hammer, but it's done.

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I think I had one of those dreams. And here I thought I was immune.

Well, I had a productive first day of 2019:



[JOSIE & JILLIAN]

lol, also, I'm a fucking idiot.

I bet you all were thinking, "Oh, good. Charlie is going to stop asking random questions about our dream lives because it's an uncomfortable and awkward topic most of the time." HA HA. No, not quite. I'm too curious for my own good and I think, eventually, all of this information will be of use to us. So here's the next topic for discussion for all you second-life dreamers out there!

What is the best part about your dream life? What is the worst?

You can answer anonymously, or not. Totally up to you.

ALEX, ANNIE, MIKHAIL, LUCY, EVAN, CASSIA, JILLIAN, ZOYA, ELIAS, LYRA, NICK, OCEANA (please lmk if I forgot anyone!!)

I know this is extremely late notice, but Bash and I would like to invite you to join us on Saturday, October 20 at Northwind Stables to celebrate the two of us getting married with dinner at Bash's our house afterward. You're welcome to bring a plus one, if you'd like, but we are intending to keep this very, very small, so we just ask that you let us know before you extend the invitation. We hope each of you can be there!

ALEX & ANNIE

Alex, we were wondering if maybe you could do one of those online certificate things where you get ordained and can marry us? If you're up for it.

And, Annie, we were hoping that you might be willing to make a bundt cake for our wedding cake? Again, I know it's last moment, so of course I'll help however I can, if you're willing to do it.

CASSIA & JILLIAN

I hope this is okay. I know we're still getting there, but the only dream I've really had about my wedding since before I even knew Bash existed was that I wanted you both there. Wherever we are with each other right now, I don't want to look back on the day and have any regrets. I'd regret it if I didn't tell you both that I want you there.

VIOLET

Hi! I was wondering if, perhaps, you'd be interested in and able to provide a couple of simple flower arrangements for a very, very small wedding (less than 20 people) on Saturday? And, regardless of the answer, you should come and bring your husband. If you want. It'll be at Northwind Stables.

EVAN

Don't be mad.

LGBTQ FILTER

Hey everyone! I'm back again with more details for our Paint Nite!

Date 1: Saturday, October 6th @ 7pm.
Date 2: Thursday, October 11th @ 7pm.

Please let me know which night you're coming so I can make sure we have the right accommodations at each one.

And here are your four choices for paintings. Feel free to vote down below.

• Midnight Pumpkin Patch
• Seasons
• Flower
• Starry Lake Sunset

Can't wait to see you all!

It's October 1, which means that we've officially entered the one month of the year where it's socially acceptable for me to get spooky af. I am here 👏 for 👏 it 👏. 🎃🎃🎃🎃

FILTERED TO LGBTQ MEMBERS OF THE COMMUNITY

Hey, everyone!

I wanted to take a second to apologize for not organizing anything for us for awhile. My plate has been a little on the full side recently, and I'm sorry to say I let it slide. I'll try to start organizing some get togethers for us more frequently again. I imagine we could all use it.

What do you all think of getting together for a Paint Nite sometime in the next week or two? I'm also open to other suggestions if you have ideas.