"So-and-so has added you as a friend"
It's right here: http://www.insanejournal.com/manage/subs
I think that the "all comments in my journal on any post" option will copy your own replies back to you in email; if you're getting comment notifications okay, leave that one alone. ^__^
So far, all I've done is go back to LJ and see what the web address is for those useful things, then add the necessary stuff to the end of the InsaneJournal addy -- and so far, it's worked like a charm.
ETA: The thumbtack feature to keep track of posts et al is found when you actually click on a cut/view comments/otherwise go to the actual post. It's right there in the little toolbar -- just like on LJ.
semby
I'm a little confused by the format of that page, though. It's ticky boxes, and a save button, right? But I ticked boxes, pushed save and then it just reloaded the page with none of the boxes ticked. Is this supposed to happen, or is my computer acting funny? If that's what's happening for everyone - how can I see that my selections actually went through, and how could I unselect them if I chose to in the future?
caoilainn
poleva