[Locked to Sasha J][After
this.]
Sasha. You
asked me about the military. I gave you my opinion, and I shared
my experience, but that's not me forcing anything on you. Alright? You have to do what you think you should do. Am I going to do cartwheels?
No. I spent twenty years in
Hell because of the military, and you know that. I still can't remember half of the things they did to me, and I spent so much of it strapped to a medical bed for testing that I don't age, and I can't have kids, and my head is a
mess. Do I want that for you?
No. Does it scare me that you're thinking of joining?
Yes. That's natural given my experiences, but Sash, you can't keep taking things I hope for you and making them edicts. I'm not telling you to live a sedate life, and I'm not telling you to get married, and I'm not telling you not to join the military. I want you happy, and I don't think that's a bad thing for a sister to want for her kid sister. Alright? You can't live your life being bitter about what people who care about you want for you. But, more importantly, you can't let what we want control you.
Make your own choices. Live your own life. Alright?