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Tweak says, "Zagreus sees you in your bed"

Enid Sinclair 🌟💙🐺 (blondefurball) wrote in valloic,
@ 2023-03-20 10:49:00

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FILTERED TO TEENS + CHETNEY (MINUS WEDNESDAY):

Hi friends! I have A TOTALLY HYPOTHETICAL situation and I would LOVE to hear your advice. 💗 SO LIKE say you go out with a friend to a musical! And ahead of time you don't specify it's a "date", you're just out with your friend having a good time!

AND THEN at the end, they call it a "date". And you internally have a little spasm and freak out but don't say anything because maybe they just mean "date" like, friend-date, right? 🤔

But then like, you still continue to do regular things together! Occasionally go shopping! Mani/pedis! Hang out all the time! Go out for dinner! And the occasional handholding!👩🏻‍🤝‍👩🏼But no kissing. No other moves! VERy mixed signals.

WHAT DOES IT MEAN? Should I the person on the confused end make a move?? Hypothetically?? Should they just ask? But what if they ask and then the person was like "Relationships and feelings are meaningless." and then they get utterly heartbroken and have no one to talk to after that?? Does this feel like FRIENDS or something MORE?

FILTERED TO WEDNESDAY:

Hi did you know there are like TWO death covens in Vallo? 💀💀 I scored us an invite to the Ankou celebrations this Saturday to kick off the magical thing or whatnot and I wanted to know if you wanted to come with me?

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	dustybunn 2023-03-20 05:23 pm UTC (link)
	Just ask. Otherwise you're giving yourself a never ending headache. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	blondefurball 2023-03-20 05:40 pm UTC (link)
	But what about the NEVER ENDING HEARTACHE that comes from rejection??? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	dustybunn 2023-03-20 05:44 pm UTC (link)
	You get over it when you start liking someone else. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	blondefurball 2023-03-20 06:27 pm UTC (link)
	I've had like, twenty crushes in my short lifespan but none of them have been my bestie first. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	dustybunn 2023-03-20 06:50 pm UTC (link)
	Will you stop being friends if she doesn't like you back? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	blondefurball 2023-03-20 10:56 pm UTC (link)
	NO. I mean I wasn't friends with her with that expectation in the first place! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	dustybunn 2023-03-21 06:19 am UTC (link)
	So talk to her. It might get awkward if she doesn't feel the same, but that awkwardness will pass. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	blondefurball 2023-03-21 04:46 pm UTC (link)
	First I'm going to roll around in ANXIETY!! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	dustybunn 2023-03-21 04:50 pm UTC (link)
	I think most do. I know I did, but it got easier after I asked. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	blondefurball 2023-03-21 05:03 pm UTC (link)
	AW how did that go? Tell me your story! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	dustybunn 2023-03-21 05:11 pm UTC (link)
	It went great back home, but she's not here. Long distance doesn't work out well when you're in two different realities. (Reply to this) (Parent)

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