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Freddy Freeman ([info]freemanspeaks) wrote in [info]somerealityweb,
@ 2019-10-17 21:37:00

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Current mood: contemplative
Entry tags:active: ellie phimister, active: freddy freeman, active: gwen poole, active: hope mikaelson, active: james rogers, active: lizzie saltzman, active: mary bromfield, active: morgan stark, active: nico di angelo, active: peter parker, active: vanya hargreeves, inactive: cisco ramon, inactive: david katz, inactive: harry hook, inactive: jughead jones, inactive: mal bertha, inactive: molly hayes

Network: Freddy Freeman
Hey, everybody!. Okay, first, there are lots of new people here now so if we haven't talked, I'm Freddy and I'm 14 15. I'm a freshman at the high school. Welcome! Tomorrow is Goodland's Coming Out Day so I wanted to say something. But I didn't want to say it over and over so I'm gonna do it here and hope the bullies from home never come here. Like a few know because some guessed and I told some, but not many. And if I didn't tell you, it is not because I don't trust you, but because I just don't understand everything yet. I just know I don't just like girls. I'm not sure I like any girls, but maybe I do. I don't know if I just like boys either. And, like, I've been reading websites like The Trevor Project and It Gets Better and I know there is so much about gender and sexuality and labels and I guess it just feels like a lot so I don't totally know what I am yet, but I do like a certain guy know I definitely like at least one person who identifies as a male. So that is my coming out story. I hope that is okay.


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[info]ashtawawidiwin
2019-10-18 01:51 am UTC (link)
I don't think you have to figure out the words right away. There's so many ways to be that it's hard to find the best description.

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 01:52 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]ashtawawidiwin, 2019-10-18 01:58 am UTC

[info]weirdowriter
2019-10-18 01:52 am UTC (link)
That's great, Freddy. I know it takes a lot of courage to say something like this. I'm proud of you.

Before I started dating Betty, I identified as Aromantic, maybe even Asexual, but it's not an absolute thing. Sometimes it doesn't matter what label you identify with, your heart can defy it. Betty's my exception. Maybe she's the only exception, and I hope she is. All I know is I have never felt for anyone what I feel for her. But I'm also just 17 and I've got a whole lot of living left to do, and if Betty's by my side for the rest of my life I won't complain, but I feel like if she's not then probably no one will be. I can't imagine feeling this way about anyone else.

If you like boys, that doesn't mean there won't be a girl that you like sometime, too. And that's okay. You don't have to fit into some silly mold. You just be you, listen to your heart, and it doesn't matter who you love.

If anyone gives you crap, especially at school, but anywhere ever, you can come to me. I got your back.

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 01:55 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]weirdowriter, 2019-10-18 01:58 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]patronsaintof, 2019-10-18 02:06 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]weirdowriter, 2019-10-18 02:08 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]dissulta, 2019-10-18 03:56 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]weirdowriter, 2019-10-18 04:11 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]dissulta, 2019-10-18 07:52 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]weirdowriter, 2019-10-18 10:53 pm UTC

[info]patronsaintof
2019-10-18 02:02 am UTC (link)
I'm proud of you, Freddy.

I know that took a lot of courage.

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 02:03 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]patronsaintof, 2019-10-18 02:06 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 03:11 pm UTC

[info]onlygoodvibes
2019-10-18 02:44 am UTC (link)
It's a hard thing to put into words. It's okay not to know, half the time I don't know. I've had a boyfriend and girlfriends.

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 03:12 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]onlygoodvibes, 2019-10-18 04:44 pm UTC

[info]pinkmerc
2019-10-18 02:49 am UTC (link)
I am so unbelievably, incredibly, awesomely proud of you, Kiddo. I can't words very well, but I needed you to know that.

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 03:12 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]pinkmerc, 2019-10-19 02:16 pm UTC

[info]aloneinacrowd
2019-10-18 02:52 am UTC (link)
Hello Freddy. My name is Vanya.

It's very brave of you to share your feelings like this. I'm sure the people who love you are proud.

I struggled with trying to fit into a box that wasn't quite right for a long time myself. Just be patient and give yourself time and opportunity to learn. You'll find the word or phrase that feels right eventually.

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 03:16 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]aloneinacrowd, 2019-10-18 08:33 pm UTC

[info]theghostking
2019-10-18 03:18 am UTC (link)
i still think your realy brave & ahsu awsu awsome awesome.

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 03:18 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]theghostking, 2019-10-18 03:24 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 04:51 pm UTC

[info]mutantprincess
2019-10-18 03:34 am UTC (link)
Okay but also, kissing is gross. There is spit involved. I saw it.

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 03:18 pm UTC

[info]undeadhorror
2019-10-18 03:42 am UTC (link)
That's cool.


I don't think you're supposed to know everything right away, right? Like... it's one of those things you just have to experience and be like "nah" or "yessss".

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 03:19 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]undeadhorror, 2019-10-18 08:59 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-20 10:27 pm UTC

[info]callemfishbait
2019-10-18 12:38 pm UTC (link)
I think perhaps I owe ye a hug now, mako.

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 03:19 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]callemfishbait, 2019-10-18 05:16 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 06:55 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]callemfishbait, 2019-10-18 08:34 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-20 10:28 pm UTC

[info]ladyshazam
2019-10-18 02:14 pm UTC (link)
Proud of you, Little brother.

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 03:19 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]ladyshazam, 2019-10-18 06:05 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 06:55 pm UTC
Freddy
[info]sky_soldier
2019-10-18 02:19 pm UTC (link)
Hello, my name is Dave.

I come from a point in history, where this is seldom talked about. "Coming out" wasn't a thing that gay men did, they were made to feel like everything they did should be hidden away.

When I finally got the courage to come out, I was older than you, and it was not well received among my peers. It makes my heart very happy to see the support that you are getting.

If you ever need someone to talk to though, about any of this, I'd be happy to listen. I would offer advice, but my experiences will have been very different than yours. They weren't as accepting in the 1950s. But I am good at listening.

You're very brave, and I hope you continued success.

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Re: Freddy | Dave - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 03:21 pm UTC
Freddy | Dave - [info]sky_soldier, 2019-10-18 06:05 pm UTC

[info]jeditraitor
2019-10-18 03:50 pm UTC (link)
It's still weird that it's so hard to talk about here to the point there's an actual day.

At home it just didn't matter, you love who you love.

But it was a brave thing for you to do so, well done. And if anyone offends you, I have the Force and a lightsaber.

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 04:47 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]jeditraitor, 2019-10-18 07:49 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]ribbons, 2019-10-18 06:05 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]jeditraitor, 2019-10-18 07:58 pm UTC

[info]frostandsnow
2019-10-18 03:53 pm UTC (link)
You're my favourite kid. Basically ever.

So good for you and I hope the guy you like appreciates how amazing you are.

Can turn people into ice sculptures upon request.

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Frost | Freddy - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 04:47 pm UTC
Frost | Freddy - [info]frostandsnow, 2019-10-18 07:47 pm UTC
Re: Frost | Freddy - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-20 10:54 pm UTC
Frost | Freddy - [info]frostandsnow, 2019-10-21 11:45 pm UTC
Re: Frost | Freddy - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-22 12:00 am UTC
Frost | Freddy - [info]frostandsnow, 2019-10-22 12:05 am UTC
Re: Frost | Freddy - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-22 12:08 am UTC
Frost | Freddy - [info]frostandsnow, 2019-10-22 12:13 am UTC
Re: Frost | Freddy - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-22 12:15 am UTC
Frost | Freddy - [info]frostandsnow, 2019-10-22 12:40 am UTC
Re: Frost | Freddy - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-22 12:45 am UTC
Frost | Freddy - [info]frostandsnow, 2019-10-23 10:10 pm UTC

[info]dissulta
2019-10-18 03:54 pm UTC (link)
I am so so proud of you right now Freddy

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 04:48 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]dissulta, 2019-10-18 07:50 pm UTC

[info]machinesrus
2019-10-18 05:50 pm UTC (link)
I haven't known what to call myself since I married a genderless space robot, I just know judging people for something like that is stupid as hell.

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 06:56 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]machinesrus, 2019-10-18 07:10 pm UTC

[info]maguna
2019-10-18 06:03 pm UTC (link)
You're the bravest Freddy I know.

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 06:56 pm UTC

[info]detonations
2019-10-18 06:36 pm UTC (link)
Don't worry about labelling it down, you just do you, and that's all you need to worry about. I identified as bisexual for a while, then I used lesbian, I use bisexual again now because I feel like that's more me, but there's nothing to say it won't change again.

But, you are loved and special and super brave. ❤

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 06:57 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]detonations, 2019-10-18 07:03 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-18 07:07 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]detonations, 2019-10-18 07:12 pm UTC

[info]thenextavenger
2019-10-18 09:28 pm UTC (link)
That's not as much of a sup Cool. I didn't know Coming Out Day was a thing, or that there's labels, but I'm glad you figured that out. And I'm glad you felt safe enough to come out to us.

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-20 10:24 pm UTC

[info]quattuor
2019-10-18 09:33 pm UTC (link)
I have tears in my eyes, god I'm such a weak ass bitch You're seriously one of the awesomest kids I know, Freddy.

But one day, you'll find the label that fits you. Took me ages to find mine.

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-20 10:24 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]quattuor, 2019-10-20 10:29 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-20 10:52 pm UTC

[info]fromyoutube
2019-10-18 10:40 pm UTC (link)
You're awesome, Freddy. No matter what label you do or don't find that works for you, whether you want one or not, you're awesome.

⊂( ・▽・⊂)

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-20 10:24 pm UTC

[info]ifonly
2019-10-19 07:10 am UTC (link)
this may not mean much, but i'm really proud of you for this. i know it couldn't have been easy, especially when you're still trying to figure things out. take your time with it and don't feel pressured to say you're one thing or another. if you find something that works for you, that's great and you should run with it. if not, that's completely okay too and run with that. i wish i could say more, i want to say more but...i'm not exactly the most experienced person you could be talking to about this kind of thing. just know that i'm here for you, no matter what and that you're a really great kid that deserves to be happy in life, whatever that might look like.

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-20 10:25 pm UTC

[info]caretoomuch
2019-10-19 11:04 am UTC (link)
Sexuality is complicated and a whole spectrum. I'm Pansexual, and am pretty much even when it comes to whether I'm attracted to male, female, non-binary, trans. I don't have a preference. But, I know some people lean more towards one or the other. I've always just liked people for who they are, then anything else.

Basically, don't feel pressured to put a label on it. And, if you do decide to, you can change it if you realise that maybe that doesn't fit you as well as you thought. There's no right or wrong answer. Only who you are.

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-20 10:26 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]caretoomuch, 2019-10-24 09:51 am UTC

[info]baculum
2019-10-20 11:05 pm UTC (link)
I'm really proud of you, Freddy.

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(no subject) - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-21 12:59 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]baculum, 2019-10-21 01:09 pm UTC
Freddy
[info]bigblue
2019-10-21 10:40 am UTC (link)
I am incredibly proud of you, Freddy and in awe if your bravery. Looking at those websites, I understand how complex and varied human sexuality is. I shouldn’t worry too much if you haven’t found the right label. You’re still learning who you are. If I were to label myself from that list, I suppose I would be considered pansexual? On account of my being a different species? See, even adults have difficulty understanding themselves.

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Re: Freddy + Clark - [info]freemanspeaks, 2019-10-21 01:01 pm UTC

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