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Elenwë of the Vanyar (vanya_elenwe) wrote in compass_network,
@ 2013-04-21 13:59:00

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I am only curious. And do not feel you have to answer, if you do not wish to do so.

My question concerns those of you who have had old loves show up here, or those of you who have shown up in this place and found your loves with someone else. This is...strange to me, as I have explained before, but that is not what this is about.

I wonder only how many of you still loved the other when you arrived here? And how long you have been here. And how you replaced them so easily.

And also, do any of you have loves back home that you have remained faithful to?

[OOC: Trigger warning. Mentions of rape in comments]

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	vanya_elenwe 2013-04-21 07:10 pm UTC (link)
	Such a short time! Barely enough time to bear a child, even for you. I should think that if there was love for the one you loved before, you would not cast it aside so easily. It did not. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

greywhite
2013-04-21 07:15 pm UTC (link)

What has bearing children got to do with anything? well you're incorrect. I loved Lex completely for ten years - which I'm sure seems like nothing to you as well, but that's a bloody long time, more than a third of my life actually, but then I met Malcolm and he blew my bloody world apart. But I don't expect you to understand. It must be nice knowing you're only going to love one person for your whole life.

Okay well if something like that comes up again you might like to consider that just because humans can be in love with more than person in their life doesn't mean it's not important.

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vanya_elenwe
2013-04-21 07:19 pm UTC (link)

It is but a measure of time.

Nay, I do not consider ten years a short time.

It is how long I courted my husband. It is a long time. And I wonder only how such a love could be lost in such a short time. A season! If you were wrong after ten years, how can you possibly know that you will not be wrong after only nine months?

I thought he should know. He asked of you and I did not wish for him to be surprised.

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	greywhite 2013-04-21 07:23 pm UTC (link)
	I wasn't wrong after ten years, I just happened to meet someone I ended up falling in love with, that doesn't negate the way I felt about Lex, that doesn't mean I didn't love him. It wasn't your place to tell him though. Also - I don't even know who you are. how the hell do you know so much about who I'm with? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	vanya_elenwe 2013-04-21 07:25 pm UTC (link)
	If you have chosen another, you were wrong, no matter how much you still feel for him. I speak with others. I read. It is not hard to tell who humans have relations with. Tact, my dear. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	greywhite 2013-04-21 07:28 pm UTC (link)
	Wrong in what way? You really need to be more open minded, just because it isn't like this where you're from doesn't make it wrong. Don't 'my dear' me. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	vanya_elenwe 2013-04-21 07:30 pm UTC (link)
	Wrong in the sense that it is not he you wish to spend your life with. You are engaged to another; you cannot debate this. And I do not say that the way humans love is wrong, I only say that I do not understand it. I have never said it is wrong. Very well. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	greywhite 2013-04-21 07:39 pm UTC (link)
	Actually no I'm not engaged. Where the hell are you getting that from? Well you said me being with Lex was wrong, which is pretty much the same thing. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

vanya_elenwe
2013-04-21 07:42 pm UTC (link)

And now you put words in my mouth. If I think anything is wrong, it is you being with your new love. Not with Lex.

But I did not use wrong as a moral judgement like you said I did.

I meant only that when you were with Lex, you thought he was the one, did you not? In that you were wrong. Incorrect.

And I am sorry I have received false information. Many people speak with loose tongues and perhaps do not know of what they speak.

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	greywhite 2013-04-21 07:47 pm UTC (link)
	Just as well I don't care what you think then, isn't it? No? Because it sure of hell sounds like that. Actually I didn't believe in 'the one' I don't believe in any of that romantic bullshit. Yeah they clearly don't. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)