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Freddy Freeman ([info]freemanspeaks) wrote in [info]somerealityweb,
@ 2019-10-17 21:37:00

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Network: Freddy Freeman
Hey, everybody!. Okay, first, there are lots of new people here now so if we haven't talked, I'm Freddy and I'm 14 15. I'm a freshman at the high school. Welcome! Tomorrow is Goodland's Coming Out Day so I wanted to say something. But I didn't want to say it over and over so I'm gonna do it here and hope the bullies from home never come here. Like a few know because some guessed and I told some, but not many. And if I didn't tell you, it is not because I don't trust you, but because I just don't understand everything yet. I just know I don't just like girls. I'm not sure I like any girls, but maybe I do. I don't know if I just like boys either. And, like, I've been reading websites like The Trevor Project and It Gets Better and I know there is so much about gender and sexuality and labels and I guess it just feels like a lot so I don't totally know what I am yet, but I do like a certain guy know I definitely like at least one person who identifies as a male. So that is my coming out story. I hope that is okay.


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[info]weirdowriter
2019-10-18 01:52 am UTC (link)
That's great, Freddy. I know it takes a lot of courage to say something like this. I'm proud of you.

Before I started dating Betty, I identified as Aromantic, maybe even Asexual, but it's not an absolute thing. Sometimes it doesn't matter what label you identify with, your heart can defy it. Betty's my exception. Maybe she's the only exception, and I hope she is. All I know is I have never felt for anyone what I feel for her. But I'm also just 17 and I've got a whole lot of living left to do, and if Betty's by my side for the rest of my life I won't complain, but I feel like if she's not then probably no one will be. I can't imagine feeling this way about anyone else.

If you like boys, that doesn't mean there won't be a girl that you like sometime, too. And that's okay. You don't have to fit into some silly mold. You just be you, listen to your heart, and it doesn't matter who you love.

If anyone gives you crap, especially at school, but anywhere ever, you can come to me. I got your back.

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[info]freemanspeaks
2019-10-18 01:55 am UTC (link)
That's nice, what you said about Betty! IDK if I was home if I could say this because some guys really liked beating me up giving me shit, but IDK if I would have liked a guy there. Like you said? Maybe he is my one exception or maybe I'll meet someone else and it doesn't even matter what they identify as.

Thanks, Jughead. I never had real friends outside my family before here. :)

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[info]weirdowriter
2019-10-18 01:58 am UTC (link)
Well, now you got a whole bunch of friends.

I think when someone is the one exception it's extra special, you know?

But this isn't about me or me and Betty. It's about you. You took a huge step today and that's amazing.

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[info]patronsaintof
2019-10-18 02:06 am UTC (link)
I'm your one exception?

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[info]weirdowriter
2019-10-18 02:08 am UTC (link)
Yeah. You are. I had no interest in anything even close to dating until you.

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[info]dissulta
2019-10-18 03:56 pm UTC (link)
Ever heard of demisexuality?

Kinda describes everything you just wrote.

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[info]weirdowriter
2019-10-18 04:11 pm UTC (link)
Yeah, it's more accurate now.

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[info]dissulta
2019-10-18 07:52 pm UTC (link)
I mean, not everyone needs to fit a label but it just made sense to me from what you said and I didn't know if it was one you'd heard of.

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[info]weirdowriter
2019-10-18 10:53 pm UTC (link)
I admit I looked it up when you mentioned it, and it definitely fits me.

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