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Adrian Ivashkov 🧛🏼 ([info]ivashkinator) wrote in [info]dunhavenic,
@ 2019-08-19 21:56:00

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Entry tags:!network, * emily, c: aria winters, c: ashton liang, c: chesa navarro, c: connor reed, c: duncan darling, c: elias salazar, c: josie reed, c: jude campbell, c: kesi freeman, c: lorelei wentworth, c: lucas marlow, c: mahalia navarro, c: naomi mckinnon, c: rowena hyland, c: sofia nichols

I don't usually post publicly about this dream stuff, but I'm just...curious. How many of you find a large amount of similarities between yourself and your dream self, and how many of you find that you're completely different from the person you dream of?

I can't decide which one is worse. I'm...very similar to my person, even things that happened long before I started dreaming of him seem to have an echo in these dreams. tbh sometimes it kind of reminds me of that movie Us, like we're tethered to one another, and what happens to one happens to the other in at least some capacity. Only, luckily neither world is a dark underground bunker and also I don't think my dream-self is capable of murdering me or vice-versa. Anyway. Sometimes it sucks, but then I was also thinking it probably sucks to dream of someone really different, too, especially if they were like...a bad guy, or something.

Anyway. I guess I'm just kind of wondering what other people experience on this front.



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[info]unsatisfied
2019-08-20 02:10 am UTC (link)
I think I got all of the worst parallels and none of the good ones. But I think I'm okay with that because I like the good I've got here.

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[info]ivashkinator
2019-08-20 02:19 am UTC (link)
At least it's not blocking the good out here, then.

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[info]cottonballs
2019-08-20 02:10 am UTC (link)
In some ways they're similar, but in other ways, definitely not. I think her personality and, I guess, the sort of people that she likes to surround herself with are the same? But the circumstances of her life are very different.

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[info]ivashkinator
2019-08-20 02:21 am UTC (link)
That's what's so weird, though, I mean your personality has been the same long before this all started. I guess we have some different circumstances too, though. He definitely has to deal with at least some shit that I don't.

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(no subject) - [info]cottonballs, 2019-08-20 02:27 am UTC
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[info]snarky
2019-08-20 02:11 am UTC (link)
Sometimes I wonder if the dreams and my actual life are actually two separate things at all.

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[info]ivashkinator
2019-08-20 02:22 am UTC (link)
It does really make you wonder sometimes, and in my experience, usually not for the better.

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[info]nottoday
2019-08-20 02:13 am UTC (link)
There's a lot of similarities for me. Some of them are good, but a lot of them aren't. But I'm also hoping to continue to subvert one of the differences and I feel pretty good about it. I like to think that's hope that we aren't completely bound to those other people.

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[info]ivashkinator
2019-08-20 02:24 am UTC (link)
It probably helps to try and draw a line somewhere.

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[info]sweetrot
2019-08-20 02:22 am UTC (link)
Eerily similar.

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[info]ivashkinator
2019-08-20 02:25 am UTC (link)
That seems to be a trend, emphasis on the eerie.

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(no subject) - [info]sweetrot, 2019-08-20 02:30 am UTC
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[info]ironteeth
2019-08-20 02:26 am UTC (link)
Different.

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[info]ivashkinator
2019-08-20 02:37 am UTC (link)
Is that weird, too? I mean, I guess it's all pretty weird.

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(no subject) - [info]ironteeth, 2019-08-20 02:47 am UTC
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[info]blckwidow
2019-08-20 02:26 am UTC (link)
I lean more toward being pretty different, but thank everything for that.

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[info]ivashkinator
2019-08-20 02:39 am UTC (link)
Well, I'm thankful, too, because I like you as you are.

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(no subject) - [info]blckwidow, 2019-08-20 03:18 am UTC

[info]innovates
2019-08-20 02:33 am UTC (link)
Sorta kinda? I mean, Canada definitely isn't Wakanda and my dad sure isn't a king or anything, but she and I are a bit more alike than I'd have ever realized just watching the movies. The similarities are kind of cool, but I know that I'm probably in the minority in thinking that for myself.

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[info]ivashkinator
2019-08-20 02:41 am UTC (link)
Oh, you're dreaming of someone from Black Panther? Can I ask who?

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(no subject) - [info]innovates, 2019-08-21 01:17 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA
[info]melbourne
2019-08-20 02:35 am UTC (link)
I mean, I'm not an Alchemist, and I don't think you're an evil creature of the night, so that's a pretty big difference, right? 🙂

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CONNOR | SOFIA
[info]ivashkinator
2019-08-20 02:43 am UTC (link)
lol well Adrian's not an evil creature either. But yeah, I mean, there are a lot of differences, but...sometimes that just makes it stranger that we could still be so alike in spite of them.

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CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]melbourne, 2019-08-20 02:46 am UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]ivashkinator, 2019-08-20 02:55 am UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]melbourne, 2019-08-20 02:07 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]ivashkinator, 2019-08-20 02:17 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]melbourne, 2019-08-20 02:31 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]ivashkinator, 2019-08-20 02:44 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]melbourne, 2019-08-20 03:04 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]ivashkinator, 2019-08-20 03:12 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]melbourne, 2019-08-20 03:15 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]ivashkinator, 2019-08-20 03:20 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]melbourne, 2019-08-20 03:21 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]ivashkinator, 2019-08-20 03:25 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]melbourne, 2019-08-20 03:33 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]ivashkinator, 2019-08-20 03:36 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]melbourne, 2019-08-20 03:42 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]ivashkinator, 2019-08-20 03:50 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]melbourne, 2019-08-20 03:54 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]ivashkinator, 2019-08-20 04:01 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]melbourne, 2019-08-20 04:05 pm UTC
Re: CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]ivashkinator, 2019-08-20 04:08 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]melbourne, 2019-08-20 04:24 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]ivashkinator, 2019-08-20 04:26 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]melbourne, 2019-08-20 04:27 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]ivashkinator, 2019-08-20 04:33 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]melbourne, 2019-08-20 04:37 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]ivashkinator, 2019-08-20 04:42 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]melbourne, 2019-08-20 04:45 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]ivashkinator, 2019-08-20 04:50 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]melbourne, 2019-08-20 05:04 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]ivashkinator, 2019-08-20 05:08 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]melbourne, 2019-08-20 05:10 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]ivashkinator, 2019-08-20 05:13 pm UTC
CONNOR | SOFIA - [info]melbourne, 2019-08-20 05:15 pm UTC

[info]starkster
2019-08-20 02:38 am UTC (link)
Not identical, but similar enough to be uncanny.

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[info]ivashkinator
2019-08-20 02:45 am UTC (link)
That seems to generally be the norm. I guess...maybe there has to be some sort of connection to spark the dreams.

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[info]harmonize
2019-08-20 03:43 pm UTC (link)
I'm married to the man who's dreaming of my... dream person's husband. That's a rather clunky sentence. But we knew that connection before we ever started dating, and I've never regretted a minute of it.

She also has a fairly significant family connection to ice cream, which is where I got the inspiration for my own business.

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[info]ivashkinator
2019-08-20 03:54 pm UTC (link)
Oh, that's interesting. I can see how people might bond over that. I'm friends with someone I share dreams with. We didn't know about it right away, but pretty soon after.

That's not at all a bad similarity to have, I think we're all probably grateful for it. My dream self and I are both artists. That's one I don't mind.

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(no subject) - [info]harmonize, 2019-08-21 12:11 am UTC
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[info]rescueyou
2019-08-20 03:45 pm UTC (link)
None at all, honestly. I mean. Every now and then I'll get a memory that sort of vaguely has something to do with what I'm doing in that moment, but for the most part, we're totally different people. And I like it that way.

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(no subject) - [info]ivashkinator, 2019-08-20 03:55 pm UTC

[info]inimitable
2019-08-20 03:48 pm UTC (link)
More similarities than I'd like.

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(no subject) - [info]ivashkinator, 2019-08-20 03:56 pm UTC

[info]wirecutters
2019-08-21 12:42 am UTC (link)
You know, it's weird? The world she lives in and the crazy she's got going on in her life are very different. There might be some personality there, the main difference being that I'm almost twice her age so I have a little maturity on her. But we have some oddly specific physical similarities in common. Exactly in common, even.

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