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"Not" John Harrison (respondedinkind) wrote in wariscomingcom,
@ 2014-09-28 22:24:00

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bo hess, harry lockhart, john watson, khan

John, Jacen, Sherlock, Harry (guy friends, basically!)
I find myself a bit confused.

Where, exactly, does the line fall between joining a friend for outings and dating? What does one do on a date? And how do you know if you're on one?

[Tahiri]

It seems I need a woman's advice.

I need a gift. For a special person. One I care for. But I do not want it to send any sort of message that may be awkward.

What do I do?

[Bo H]

Are you enjoying school?

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	Guy Friends Filter bad_narrator 2014-09-29 04:23 am UTC (link)
	Not really. It's about love. You know, finding your soulmate and all that. You can have a kid with anyone, but finding your perfect match is different. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Guy Friends Filter respondedinkind 2014-09-29 05:00 am UTC (link)
	Isn't the phrase "soulmate" a bit far fetched? That implies there is only one person for everyone. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

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bad_narrator
2014-09-29 07:24 am UTC (link)

I don't know about whether there's only one or what, but I do believe that there are certain people that are just destined to be together. But that doesn't mean you can't have something meaningful with someone who's not your match, because that's part of figuring it out. Like, my ex-wife, she wasn't the one, but I did love her and we had a good thing for a while, I think. Does that make sense?

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	Guy Friends Filter respondedinkind 2014-09-29 03:05 pm UTC (link)
	I cannot believe in destiny. I prefer to think we make our own fates. It makes sense. I just have a difficult time understanding how any of this is possible. (Reply to this) (Parent)

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