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Tweak says, "How do you do, fellow kids?"

Rory (badasswings) wrote in valloic,
@ 2022-08-24 13:38:00

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I'm posting this because it seems to be a reoccurring theme on searches these past few days.

There's nothing wrong with being gay, or bisexual, or any other damn type of sexuality you identify as or are still trying to figure out if you identify as.

If it helps at all, there are a lot of people here who open about their sexuality, and at least some of us are more than willing to be someone to talk to. Reaching out is scary, I get that. But when you're ready, we're here.

If anyone makes you feel less than, or if someone judges you based on that, know that there's a special place in hell for them. Not the other way around. Celestials/gods/whatever you believe in don't give a shit who you love.

And Girl, Interrupted is a solid 90s movie. But that's like ancient history for me, so please debate.

Also, also, I need three cocktail drinkers at Lux ASAP. Testing out new ideas, need feedback. Sabrina, you don't count.

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	powpowpow 2022-08-24 07:57 pm UTC (link)
	Things got a hell of a lot better in my version of earth after all of that, but the Not Talked About is a stubborn one still. At least for some people. Or still living with being straight being the default, that was pretty big growing up for me. A lot of well of course you'll find a nice girl one day and get married and have some kids. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	didithurt 2022-08-24 09:45 pm UTC (link)
	Oh, yeah, I heard that one a lot. Ma, especially, would ask when she was getting grandbabies. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

powpowpow
2022-08-25 12:48 am UTC (link)

I only got that a couple times but I was gone from home for quite a few years. But even in the middle of a damn war Mama gave me the whole spiel when I brought a girl around for dinner. ~~I sometimes wonder if she would be so forward with it all with -~~
I was never really quite sure where I fell on the whole spectrum of thing for years, but going to space kind of helped in a weird way. Nothing like a bunch of crazy aliens to put you firmly on team what is gender anyways.

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	boyofwar 2022-08-25 12:54 am UTC (link)
	We have twelve kids in the future, that should make anyone who wants grandbabies happy. Right? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	powpowpow 2022-08-25 01:09 am UTC (link)
	It better. I know she'd only ever want me to be happy and you make me happy so it'd be fine. I just hate that the immediate would be different? There'd be a pause on it and you don't deserve that. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	atreus/lance. boyofwar 2022-08-25 02:00 am UTC (link)
	Hey. It wouldn't bother me, I swear. You deserve someone that loves you unconditionally but I know not everyone adjusts as easily to these things. As long as it ends up okay? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

atreus/lance.

powpowpow
2022-08-25 02:15 am UTC (link)

It'd bother me though? I love you, that should be the part that matters - not anything else.

I know it would end up okay, if it ever even was a thing that could happen, them meeting you. I know they'd get over the initial hesitations and would end up loving you. It'd just be - a lot I guess? At first. For them. It's just weird sometimes? Knowing I'm a different person than they knew, that my future looks completely different than what everyone assumed it would be.

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	atreus/lance. boyofwar 2022-08-25 02:29 am UTC (link)
	You know it's probably less about me sometimes being a guy and more uh- My grandfather is Zeus? I'm a Norse God? Hide the genderfluid thing under the heathen pagan-ness! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	atreus/lance. powpowpow 2022-08-25 03:47 am UTC (link)
	See... it'd trip them up for a while. But give it a couple months and Mama would start breaking it out as a brag. Oh your son's dating a doctor? Well, my Leandro is dating a god. They'd come around, it just bugs me that they'd have to. You're amazing, there shouldn't be a coming around period. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	atreus/lance. boyofwar 2022-08-25 04:01 am UTC (link)
	I'm not going to be the one to tell her doctors actually go to school and stuff, I was just born this way. I'm sorry about that. I wish it were different for you, that it shouldn't matter either way. ~~Would it be better if it was A~~ (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	atreus/lance. powpowpow 2022-08-25 04:17 am UTC (link)
	There's no god school? No god Hogwarts? Sad. Don't. I love you, the future I see for myself is with you. That my parents might be stuck in their ways and need time to process that doesn't change how I feel. I'd be bummed about it but it wouldn't make this less than or something else better. (Reply to this) (Parent)

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