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Rory ([info]badasswings) wrote in [info]valloic,
@ 2022-08-24 13:38:00

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Entry tags:!: network post, ₴ inactive: aurora morningstar, ₴ inactive: bo dennis, ₴ inactive: eliot waugh, ₴ inactive: glimmer, ₴ inactive: katou yue, ₴ inactive: kenzi malikov, ₴ inactive: sabrina spellman, ₴ inactive: tally craven, ₴ inactive: vex'ahlia

I'm posting this because it seems to be a reoccurring theme on searches these past few days.

There's nothing wrong with being gay, or bisexual, or any other damn type of sexuality you identify as or are still trying to figure out if you identify as.

If it helps at all, there are a lot of people here who open about their sexuality, and at least some of us are more than willing to be someone to talk to. Reaching out is scary, I get that. But when you're ready, we're here.

If anyone makes you feel less than, or if someone judges you based on that, know that there's a special place in hell for them. Not the other way around. Celestials/gods/whatever you believe in don't give a shit who you love.

And Girl, Interrupted is a solid 90s movie. But that's like ancient history for me, so please debate.

Also, also, I need three cocktail drinkers at Lux ASAP. Testing out new ideas, need feedback. Sabrina, you don't count.



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[info]monsterthong
2022-08-24 04:57 pm UTC (link)
I volunteer as tribute for the last part.

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[info]badasswings
2022-08-24 05:00 pm UTC (link)
Great, two spots left. When can you get here?

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[info]monsterthong
2022-08-24 05:02 pm UTC (link)
Right now.

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(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 05:05 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]monsterthong, 2022-08-24 05:29 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 05:36 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]monsterthong, 2022-08-24 05:46 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 05:47 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]monsterthong, 2022-08-24 05:49 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 05:50 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]monsterthong, 2022-08-24 05:51 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 06:00 pm UTC

[info]pathofnight
2022-08-24 05:01 pm UTC (link)
I am hoping that's because I have a spot regardless.

But also I am being responsible and working so probably shouldn't be having cocktails right now.

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[info]badasswings
2022-08-24 05:06 pm UTC (link)
That sounds lame. Work day cocktails are the way to go.

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[info]pathofnight
2022-08-24 05:09 pm UTC (link)
You're as bad as Callum.

I don't think Thurvishar and Bonnie would go for that so 💔 but also if I'm wrong they better weigh in.

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(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 05:21 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]pathofnight, 2022-08-24 05:24 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 05:25 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]pathofnight, 2022-08-24 05:29 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 05:32 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]pathofnight, 2022-08-24 05:36 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 05:43 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]pathofnight, 2022-08-24 05:50 pm UTC

[info]vexahlia
2022-08-24 05:09 pm UTC (link)
Dropping in to say that I am happy to be approached if anyone needs to talk, but Trinket and I are also here to scare the shit out of anyone who tries to make any of you feel less than because of who you love and/or are attracted to.

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[info]badasswings
2022-08-24 05:21 pm UTC (link)
The correct approach to dealing with them.

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[info]vexahlia
2022-08-24 05:23 pm UTC (link)
My husband would call it diplomacy.

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(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 05:26 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]vexahlia, 2022-08-24 07:37 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 08:16 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]vexahlia, 2022-08-24 08:22 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 08:24 pm UTC

[info]queensparkles
2022-08-24 05:10 pm UTC (link)
🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

Volunteering to befriend all of the above and also taste your cocktails.

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[info]badasswings
2022-08-24 05:22 pm UTC (link)
You're over 18?

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[info]queensparkles
2022-08-24 05:24 pm UTC (link)
19!

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(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 05:26 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]queensparkles, 2022-08-24 07:36 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 07:38 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]queensparkles, 2022-08-24 07:41 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 07:48 pm UTC

[info]succubusbarbie
2022-08-24 05:17 pm UTC (link)
Amen to all of the above. Glad to hear the celestials and gods are on our side, too.

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[info]badasswings
2022-08-24 05:24 pm UTC (link)
Thor has man candy and dad has an impressive, if not traumatizing to even momentarily thing about, history.

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[info]didithurt
2022-08-24 05:21 pm UTC (link)
I think some of us also came from places where being homosexual was scary or illegal or just Not Talked About. I remember the raids, my friends being beaten up or chased out by the cops.

And there are so many more words now!

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[info]badasswings
2022-08-24 05:24 pm UTC (link)
People with that mindset never really seem to go away, but like I said, special place in hell.

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(no subject) - [info]didithurt, 2022-08-24 05:25 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 05:27 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]didithurt, 2022-08-24 05:34 pm UTC
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(no subject) - [info]didithurt, 2022-08-24 06:08 pm UTC
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[info]powpowpow
2022-08-24 07:57 pm UTC (link)
Things got a hell of a lot better in my version of earth after all of that, but the Not Talked About is a stubborn one still. At least for some people. Or still living with being straight being the default, that was pretty big growing up for me. A lot of well of course you'll find a nice girl one day and get married and have some kids.

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(no subject) - [info]didithurt, 2022-08-24 09:45 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]powpowpow, 2022-08-25 12:48 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]boyofwar, 2022-08-25 12:54 am UTC
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atreus/lance. - [info]powpowpow, 2022-08-25 02:15 am UTC
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[info]scrywitch
2022-08-24 06:20 pm UTC (link)
So much this. I hope people know there are plenty of us here willing to grab a homophobe by the privates and crush to protect them.

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[info]badasswings
2022-08-24 06:30 pm UTC (link)
If only that was always enough.

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(no subject) - [info]scrywitch, 2022-08-24 06:32 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 06:33 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]scrywitch, 2022-08-24 06:47 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 06:49 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]scrywitch, 2022-08-24 06:51 pm UTC
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(no subject) - [info]scrywitch, 2022-08-24 07:00 pm UTC
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(no subject) - [info]scrywitch, 2022-08-24 07:03 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 07:06 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]scrywitch, 2022-08-24 07:08 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 07:10 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]scrywitch, 2022-08-24 07:29 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 07:32 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]scrywitch, 2022-08-24 07:38 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 08:06 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]scrywitch, 2022-08-24 08:10 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 08:13 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]scrywitch, 2022-08-24 08:15 pm UTC
Katou | Rory
[info]realnicemonster
2022-08-24 06:45 pm UTC (link)
[CW for self-loathing, and potentially child abuse later]

Alright, but what if you know fucking everyone and their pet cat is gay here for some reason, and you still feel like shit about it?

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Katou | Rory
[info]badasswings
2022-08-24 06:48 pm UTC (link)
I'm not a therapist, so I can't give you solid medical advice here. But knowing that people don't dive a shit is a lot different that getting rid of anything someone might have internalized. It doesn't automatically undo past experiences and make things better.

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Katou | Rory - [info]realnicemonster, 2022-08-24 06:58 pm UTC
Katou | Rory - [info]badasswings, 2022-08-24 07:00 pm UTC
Katou | Rory - [info]realnicemonster, 2022-08-24 07:04 pm UTC
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[info]magicianeliot
2022-08-24 07:58 pm UTC (link)
I'd so volunteer if I wasn't working.

Echoing what others said, I'm always willing to talk with or be a listening ear for anyone who wants to talk about their sexuality, how they identify, gender, attraction or anything in between. Vallo is fairly accepting, at least more so than a lot of places.

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[info]badasswings
2022-08-24 08:01 pm UTC (link)
I figured plenty of people would chime in.

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(no subject) - [info]magicianeliot, 2022-08-24 08:08 pm UTC

[info]vanirgoddess
2022-08-24 08:03 pm UTC (link)
Seems like a huge waste of time to get hung up on what other people are doing in their love lives.

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[info]badasswings
2022-08-24 08:04 pm UTC (link)
That should be the most obvious conclusion, yep. Some people are obsessed with it though.

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(no subject) - [info]vanirgoddess, 2022-08-25 12:34 am UTC


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