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Finn Collins ([info]_spacewalker) wrote in [info]compass_network,
@ 2016-07-06 03:13:00

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Entry tags:!closed, finn collins, katherine lokadóttir

Message to Katherine
Hi.


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[info]daddyissues_
2016-07-06 04:16 am UTC (link)
Hi back?

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[info]_spacewalker
2016-07-06 04:18 am UTC (link)
How are you?

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[info]daddyissues_
2016-07-06 04:21 am UTC (link)
I'm good. How are you?

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[info]_spacewalker
2016-07-06 04:23 am UTC (link)
I'm pretty great.

You know who I am, by any chance?

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[info]daddyissues_
2016-07-06 04:25 am UTC (link)
We talked before, remember?

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[info]_spacewalker
2016-07-06 04:27 am UTC (link)
Uh, we have?

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[info]daddyissues_
2016-07-06 04:31 am UTC (link)
Yes.

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[info]_spacewalker
2016-07-06 04:34 am UTC (link)
I'm sorry, Abigail says I'm not typical, but some parts of me are, and I don't remember. Not that you aren't memorable! I'm going to blame boy brain, and possibly being in love.

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[info]daddyissues_
2016-07-06 04:37 am UTC (link)
I see. So how are you treating my girl?

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[info]_spacewalker
2016-07-06 04:39 am UTC (link)
I'm hoping she feels like a princess, at least.

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[info]daddyissues_
2016-07-06 04:46 am UTC (link)
She surely deserves to feel like that.

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[info]_spacewalker
2016-07-06 04:49 am UTC (link)
Yeah she does. She's pretty amazing.

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[info]daddyissues_
2016-07-06 04:53 am UTC (link)
Something we agree on. You do realise that if you screw this up there is a small army that will hunt you down.

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[info]_spacewalker
2016-07-06 04:55 am UTC (link)
Even if I don't do it on purpose, I will stand still and take whatever I have coming.

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[info]daddyissues_
2016-07-06 04:57 am UTC (link)
Well, I am glad we agree on this.

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[info]_spacewalker
2016-07-06 04:59 am UTC (link)
It's easy enough. I love her. I haven't told her that yet though. I don't want to freak her out.

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[info]daddyissues_
2016-07-06 05:09 am UTC (link)
I hope your feelings won't change then.

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[info]_spacewalker
2016-07-06 05:16 am UTC (link)
Me too.

I have a question. You know about her ear, and her neck? I'm not supposed to know, she hasn't told me or shown me, but I would have been very bad at living on the ground if I wasn't observant.

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[info]daddyissues_
2016-07-06 05:19 am UTC (link)
I do, yes.

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[info]_spacewalker
2016-07-06 05:22 am UTC (link)
I need advice. Do I wait for her to show me? Or do I... I don't know what to do. I want to make something for her. Something that makes it so she doesn't feel like she has to hide behind her hair, and scarves... Especially around me.

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[info]daddyissues_
2016-07-06 05:38 am UTC (link)
You wait. The best gift you can give her is to not push her. Do not hint at it and do not make her feel like you want to change her behaviour. Just show her that you are there no matter what.

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[info]_spacewalker
2016-07-06 09:15 pm UTC (link)
I've been careful so far. I just... don't want to be fooling around with her, and accidentally brush one, or both areas, and have her worried about it.

I just want us being together to be the best experience it can possibly be, I gather that she's had a few bad ones, and I just want the best for her.

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[info]daddyissues_
2016-07-08 03:38 am UTC (link)
Just be careful and deal with it when things come up. As long as you make her feel secure, it'll be all right.

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[info]_spacewalker
2016-07-08 04:43 am UTC (link)
Right. No pressure, keep things cool. Should I keep casually avoiding the areas? Or just... See that's where I get hung up. She tenses when I get close. I don't think she notices that she does, and it's only barely perceptible but I notice.

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[info]daddyissues_
2016-07-08 04:55 am UTC (link)
What worked with my Dad is to let him get used to it. He wasn't very good with physical touch when we first met in this time. I always tried to push things a little bit, you know? Let go, when he tensed too much but more so I felt him relax after a bit so I was able to keep pushing forward one bit after another. I don't know if it will work in your case but it worked wonders for me.

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[info]_spacewalker
2016-07-08 05:07 am UTC (link)
Oh, well, that's not what I meant, I'm able... I mean we've made out, I meant like close to the areas, but I think I can apply what you said to that too.

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[info]daddyissues_
2016-07-08 05:10 am UTC (link)
Yeah, that's what I meant. I know she's not as itchy with being touched as Dad was. Just let her get used to being touched around these areas but always be respectful. If you feel that she makes a move to avoid it, don't enforce it.

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[info]_spacewalker
2016-07-08 05:28 am UTC (link)
Right, okay I think I can do respectful. Respectful is easy.

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[info]daddyissues_
2016-07-08 05:31 am UTC (link)
For some, for others it is not. But those are mostly the ones that don't care.

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[info]_spacewalker
2016-07-08 05:41 am UTC (link)
I care. I really do. She actually makes me feel worthy of being her boyfriend. I can't say I've ever felt like that before.

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