Hi again!
Once everything gets going we promise there will be less of these. But because we haven't really covered this in the rules, we wanted to go over our policy on drama. When you throw a bunch of people together under pretty extreme circumstances sparks are bound to fly. I think we can all appreciate that, and when it's planned it's generally a lot of fun. When it's unplanned, from our experience, it can go a few ways and not all of them good. This is once situation where that OOC≠IC (and vice versa) rule comes into play.
Firstly, we never want drama to be motivated by personal feelings towards another player. Secondly, though, if you do find yourself in a situation that explodes in a way you hadn't intended, and you find yourself getting quite worked up/upset along with you character, take a break. Maybe call it a night if it's late or else go for a walk or watch some television or do that thing you should be doing.. Calm down and come back to it later. Contact the other person involved to make sure everything's cool. Making assumptions that they're not, or holding onto hurt or a grudge is not what we want to see and can easily loop back on the OOC≠IC issue. It can often be avoided if you just talk to each other! That said, if you do still feel there is an issue, please bring it to us – that's what we're here for. :)
Oh, and please don't post anything in the OOC in the midst of it. Wait till things have calmed down and if you still feel the need to excuse your character or whatnot, then do so.
That said, with the absence of a proper network people are probably going to have to put their money where their mouth is a bit. Unfortunately, I imagine most of the carnyfolk will only egg them on. :E But, following what we posted the other day, if certain characters do prove more trouble than they're worth their fit may have to be reconsidered. :/
So to reiterate, drama can happen, take a break if you need it, talk to each other and us, and hopefully have fun with it! :)
Thanks,
Nina and Sara