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Klara Guildsen ([info]lostababyfang) wrote in [info]marinanova,
@ 2013-09-18 00:22:00

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Entry tags::mingle, alex karev, asami sato, calliope-caliborn, data, euphemia li britannia, hatsuharu sohma, hei, helix wamtani, jessica hamby, klara guildsen, lelouch vi britannia, liz forbes, piter de vries, saetan sadiablo, sarah manning, sougo okita, spencer reid, stefan salvatore, tear grants, yuuki kuran, zero kiryuu

[Day 237] FAMILY ISSUES GROUP THERAPY MINGLE
[Anyone brought to this group will find that there are tables set up around the perimeter of the room, one with snacks and drinks, some even with art supplies on them, while the chairs are all pushed into a circle in the middle. There is a projector set up to one side and it flashes images every so often onto the wall. Images of children, adults, the elderly with the young--some of them more formal, posed, others candid as the brief moments of life they were. Some of these images might even be familiar to certain inmates. It shouldn't be hard for them to pick out their own families after all.

In the center of the circle of chairs is a table with a large bowl of treats, wrapped candies of various sorts. Hard candies, caramels, chocolates, taffy. Beside the bowl is a set of cards with instructions written on the back of them.

"Select a card and read the question aloud to the group. Whoever answers the question gets to choose a reward from the bowl and then select the next card. Continue until all of the cards have been viewed or the bowl is empty. More than one person can answer--the first to respond gets to select the next card. If no one volunteers, the card picker gets to select a person."

The cards themselves have a variety of questions and tasks, but they all have a very similar theme.]

1. What does "family" mean to you?
2. Draw a picture of your family and describe it to the group.
3. What is your ideal family unit?
4. Do you have any siblings? If so, what are they like? If not, what would you do if you found out you had one you had never met before?
5. Have you ever done something to hurt or upset a member of your family on purpose?
6. What is the strongest memory you have of your mother and/or father?
7. Imitate one of your parents when reprimanding you.
8. Have you ever felt like an outsider in your family?
9. What is something you have done to a member of your family or they had done to you that took a long time to move beyond (if ever)?
10. Who are you closest to in your family?
11. How many close family members have you lost?


{OOC: Mingle! These questions are not the only ones. Feel free to come up with more. Also the candy in the bowl is spiked just like the pastries and coffee, so the more characters eat...you get the picture.}


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[info]sanguino
2013-09-19 12:33 am UTC (link)
[Stefan sure did drink a cup or two of that coffee, which is going to seriously bite him in the ass when it's finally his turn.

This is seriously the worst.]


'How many close family members have you lost?'

[The. Worst.]

All of them, except one.

[Who is also in the prison. Shocking.]

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[info]virgins
2013-09-19 02:06 am UTC (link)
[Jessica hasn't talked to Stefan in a while, not since she's come back to the dome, but she does look pretty sympathetic at his words.]

My family is all alive but they don't talk to me anymore -- not since I was turned.

[Bill is the only family she has left now.]

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[info]sanguino
2013-09-20 01:03 am UTC (link)
[He nods slowly.]

Did you get along?

[Because that would change things significantly as to whether or not that was a good thing.]

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[info]virgins
2013-09-21 05:45 am UTC (link)
Not really. I mean, my little sister Esther was a brat, but I probably got a long best with her.

My mom and dad were real strict Christians -- they didn't really let me do much of nothin', and I had a rebellious streak.

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[info]sanguino
2013-09-21 10:11 pm UTC (link)
I'm guessing they weren't very supportive of what happened to you, either.

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[info]virgins
2013-09-22 05:16 am UTC (link)
Not at all. Daddy started goin' on about how I shouldn't of let this happen to me, like I got some fuckin' choice in the matter or somethin, like I wasn't kidnapped and turned just to punish my maker -- I kinda lost it, I probably woulda killed 'em if Bill hadn't stepped in.

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(no subject) - [info]sanguino, 2013-09-24 01:30 pm UTC
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(no subject) - [info]sanguino, 2013-09-26 01:41 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]virgins, 2013-09-27 05:50 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]sanguino, 2013-09-27 02:53 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]virgins, 2013-09-27 08:05 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]sanguino, 2013-09-28 11:20 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]virgins, 2013-09-29 07:50 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]sanguino, 2013-09-30 12:51 am UTC
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[info]sheriffed
2013-09-19 10:34 am UTC (link)
[ liz merely glances at stefan. she doesn't know his entire story, but she knows some of it. she also knows there's something between him and caroline. what it is exactly she doesn't know, but it's something. ]

I think that question can apply to a lot of us. [ and that answer. ]

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[info]sanguino
2013-09-20 01:05 am UTC (link)
[Most people don't, for good reason. It was one of a very long line of very big mistakes he made when he was newly turned.]

We've all lost a lot, no one can deny that.

[And he sure does blame himself for a lot of it. All the time.]

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[info]sheriffed
2013-09-20 11:52 pm UTC (link)
So this is an exercise in what, reminding us of the people we have here?

[ she's just going to ignore the implications of everything else and try to focus on the good here. try being the keyword. ]

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[info]sanguino
2013-09-21 10:09 pm UTC (link)
Rehabilitation through torture isn't exactly a new technique, either.

[Is he being sarcastic? Only slightly.]

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[info]sheriffed
2013-09-22 09:35 pm UTC (link)
I guess it wouldn't be. It's sprinkled throughout history, isn't it?

[ she might be slightly less than serious, but it's also a legitimate question. history, both personal and not, seems to have a lot of torture. if only she knew about her own stint at that last year. ]

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(no subject) - [info]sanguino, 2013-09-24 01:31 pm UTC

[info]friendly_fire
2013-09-19 08:22 pm UTC (link)
[She hears him read the question and answer it. How could her heart not go out to him. She hasn't lost so many, Considering she actually has around one hundred siblings but she's lost enough. Too many.]

I'm sorry. It's always hard to lose family.

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[info]sanguino
2013-09-20 01:05 am UTC (link)
It happened a long time ago.

[Which...is true, but that doesn't always make it better.]

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[info]friendly_fire
2013-09-22 06:55 pm UTC (link)
Time helps a little. [But in her experience there is always a hole there. It may go from raw to tender to an ache and so on with time, but even when the pain is almost gone there is still that empty place where they are supposed to be.]

May I ask who it is you still have from your family?

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[info]sanguino
2013-09-24 01:31 pm UTC (link)
[He nods. It does, but just a little. But it never seemed to hurt less when it happened again.]

Damon Salvatore. He's my brother.

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[info]friendly_fire
2013-09-25 11:53 pm UTC (link)
I don't think I've had the pleasure, but he is here, isn't he? The name is familiar. [The wardens say it often enough after all.]

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(no subject) - [info]sanguino, 2013-09-27 02:54 pm UTC
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(no subject) - [info]sanguino, 2013-09-30 12:57 am UTC
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[info]thirdcriterion
2013-09-19 08:29 pm UTC (link)
That is a most unfortunate position in which to find oneself - and one which appears to be far too common an experience.

[ Also one to which he can relate. ]

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[info]sanguino
2013-09-20 01:06 am UTC (link)
When you're immortal and most other people aren't, it's bound to happen eventually.

[Not that he can't die, but yeah. And since Damon killed Zach, well, that was the end of that.]

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[info]thirdcriterion
2013-09-22 07:58 pm UTC (link)
[ There's an interesting and not inaccurate statement - and another to which he can relate, oddly. ]

The implication of that statement being that you are immortal yourself?

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[info]sanguino
2013-09-24 02:04 pm UTC (link)
I'm a vampire. I can be killed, but otherwise, yes.

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[info]thirdcriterion
2013-10-01 10:02 pm UTC (link)
[ There is a small nod as he absorbs that - fortunately, he's been here long enough that he's encountered vampires prior to this. ]

I see. I am also most likely to considerably outlive those I care for.

[ And his head tilts very slightly. ]

Are the majority of those with whom you maintain close relationships mortal?

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(no subject) - [info]sanguino, 2013-10-03 11:43 pm UTC
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[info]trappedinresin
2013-09-21 02:43 pm UTC (link)
[Maybe that's why despite how different both him and Damon are from one another, they're still there together through thick and thin right? They still care about one another at least. She hasn't seen them together personally all that much. But the little they've spoken... beyond sibling frustration, doesn't lead her to believe otherwise.]

I'm sorry, Stefan.

[No amount of time ever makes the lose of someone truly go away. People merely find ways of dealing with the grief.]

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[info]sanguino
2013-09-21 10:13 pm UTC (link)
It tends to happen when you live forever.

[At least, where he's from.]

It's what we deserve.

[And he...really believes that. They brought it on themselves. Mostly him, though. It's his fault.]

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[info]trappedinresin
2013-09-21 10:45 pm UTC (link)
No one deserves that.

[A light shake of her head]

No one...deserves to lose their family.

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[info]sanguino
2013-09-24 02:05 pm UTC (link)
Well, we killed them ourselves. If that doesn't mean we deserve it, than what does?

[...Yeah, he really shouldn't have drank that coffee.]

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(no subject) - [info]sanguino, 2013-10-07 12:47 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]trappedinresin, 2013-10-08 04:48 pm UTC
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