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Maryanne Elizabeth Walker ([info]maryanne_walker) wrote in [info]compass_network,
@ 2013-06-23 02:13:00

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Entry tags:!open, jake sully, maryanne walker (oe), ~isabel lane, ~tony stark

Three key quotes that everyone should know and take to heart. Because there are far to many people who think themselves smart, or 'wise', on this island, yet close themselves off to learning anything new about anyone or anything.


"The fool doth think he is wise, but the wise man knows himself to be a fool."
-William Shakespeare

“To know that you do not know is the best. To pretend to know when you do not know is a disease.”
-Lao-Tzu

"The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing."
-Socrates

They all three say close to the same thing. And all three men knew what they said to be true about themselves.

My question is, are you going to die the fool? Or will you become wise before you die?



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[info]maryanne_walker
2013-06-23 11:40 pm UTC (link)
Actually I dismissed you the moment you got here. You see, I've read portrait of Dorian Gray. I only answered you in attempt to be polite. And learned that I was correct in dismissing you.

I simply decided the opinion of someone as two dimensional as you are, unworthy of my time, because you've been here all of five seconds and you're already reading between lines that aren't there. And you think yourself witty in doing so.

And I offered you a good stay, because I have no reason to speak to you any farther.

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[info]hedonism
2013-06-23 11:52 pm UTC (link)
Darling, it doesn't surprise me that you misinterpreted my book like you misinterpreted those quotes - if you don't understand the complexities of living without perceived guilt or accepted remorse; of hedonism and the importance of being earnest and living for pleasure without impediment or judgement - I don't know what to tell you.

It rains on the moral and amoral alike - it's learning that there is no difference that's the real trick, and until you do - as those quotes said, you know nothing.

Basing your opinion of me on what you thought was true it, officially the highest form of intolerance and ignorance.

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[info]maryanne_walker
2013-06-24 05:49 am UTC (link)
Actually I didn't misinterpret your book, or the quotes, you're just reading it that way. Because like so many people you see lines that aren't there. And then look for the things between them.

I see no point in arguing with a man that either doesn't have the ability, or the want, to feel guilt or remorse. It would be like talking in circles, you might enjoy it but it gives me a headache, and I feel rather stabby when I get a headache. If not bitey, clawy and bonecrunchy.

Also, I don't feel the need to explain myself to someone who's been here five seconds, someone who either doesn't know or doesn't care about the plight of the rest of the island. So lets put things simply, you're not my tea and crackers, sweetheart, and lets move on. If you were, I would have talked to you before now. I'm neither saying your way of life is wrong, or that you need to change it, I'm just saying I'm not interested.

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[info]doriangray
2013-06-24 01:05 pm UTC (link)
...Yet you expect someone else to explain themselves to you or you call them out as a jackass and a fool -- and tell me you know me better than I know myself. How is that anything but the same willing ignorance you're complaining about in others?

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[info]maryanne_walker
2013-06-24 01:12 pm UTC (link)
Again, reading things into what I say really gets pretty boring for me. Nowhere did I say 'explain yourself'. To anyone. Nor did I claim to know you better than you know yourself. But I will tell you, you're coming off pretty foolish considering you don't know what's going on.

Tell me, Mister Gray, this feminine thing you do, where you put information into other peoples words that isn't there: Is it something you always do? Or am I simply lucky?

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[info]hedonism
2013-06-24 01:30 pm UTC (link)
Are you always this misogynistic?

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[info]maryanne_walker
2013-06-24 01:37 pm UTC (link)
No, I just dislike that all the coy attempts that have men trained to see things that aren't there. Especially when they really aren't there. To me The means The, and it should stay The. There shouldn't be kittens hiding in the letters. It makes talking to people harder than it really should be.

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[info]hedonism
2013-06-24 01:44 pm UTC (link)
If I tell you that you are wrong about my life story and you tell me that your aren't how is that anything but you blatantly stating you think you know me better than I do?

As for the initial quotes, idiot, you wouldn't have stated them if you didn't think they had meaning -- you just got what's between the lines wrong. Which isn't a masculine or feminine trait at all.

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[info]maryanne_walker
2013-06-24 02:07 pm UTC (link)
Really insults? You should have really stopped while you were ahead, but I guess since you do like to run at the mouth I should have expected it. Why don't you be a sweetheart and return to laying on your back, because that's all you're good for.

The adults are talking about things that were far more important than your ego. And you probably wouldn't understand. Do I need to get you an ABC book to occupy you? Or perhaps a large type dictionary so you can learn the meanings to the words that are actually being written?

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[info]tonystark
2013-06-23 11:57 pm UTC (link)
It's The Picture of Dorian Gray. You're thinking of A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man. It's an easy mistake to make. But harder if you've actually read the book. Either way, allow me to make an important distinction: while the picture was two-dimensional, that doesn't mean that the individual depicted was.

In any case, you would be wise to note that your argument has devolved into the logical fallacy known as an Ad hominem attack, presumably because you didn't like his point, but found yourself unwilling or unable to counter it with logical arguments or salient facts. But I suppose in your defense, it would be difficult to argue against it, as you have now repeatedly demonstrated that you are quite unwilling to hear what he has to say, and seem to think you already know better. Than Dorian, yes, but also than the specific people whom you think are not sufficiently open-minded, by criteria you have yet to disclose.

Which was, more or less, his original point.

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Tony | Dorian
[info]hedonism
2013-06-24 12:08 am UTC (link)
Tony, she isn't going to listen and you don't need to make enemies - she already has her mind made up to hate me, so leave it.

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Tony | Dorian
[info]tonysnark
2013-06-24 12:14 am UTC (link)
I might need to make enemies. I had a lot back home. Not having any here feels wrong somehow.

I don't know where everyone is getting this idea that they know who you are, or why you do what you do.

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Tony | Dorian
[info]hedonism
2013-06-24 12:57 am UTC (link)
We've talked about this before, she isn't proving her point, she's attempting to disprove my humanity to render me invalid because I disagree.

It's the oldest trick in the book.

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Tony | Dorian
[info]tonystark
2013-06-24 01:02 am UTC (link)
It's a dumb trick from a fucked-up book.

I've known plenty of people with less humanity than you who still got full credit for being human.

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Tony | Dorian
[info]hedonism
2013-06-24 01:08 am UTC (link)
I just don't see the point of making any sort of argument that you can't support under scrutiny. It's just worse that this was...about ignorance.

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Tony | Dorian
[info]tonystark
2013-06-24 01:15 am UTC (link)
It was only appropriate that Irony Man made an appearance.

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Tony | Dorian
[info]doriangray
2013-06-24 05:39 am UTC (link)
Oh my God. You nearly made me choke on my Zinfandel.

Leave the puns to me, Darling, from now on.

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Tony | Dorian - [info]tonystark, 2013-06-24 05:42 am UTC
Tony | Dorian - [info]doriangray, 2013-06-24 01:12 pm UTC
Tony | Dorian - [info]tonystark, 2013-06-24 07:16 pm UTC

[info]maryanne_walker
2013-06-24 06:13 am UTC (link)
Actually no, I was thinking because there is a 'Portrait' a painting, rather than a photograph that it was the 'The Portrait of Dorian Gray'. I read it sixteen years ago, I imagine there's a little room for error. I've never read A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man. He might be interested that said painting is actually here, by the way. It's been here since November, or that's what Cutler's notes say.

Unwilling would be more truthful, I had a very strong, and very long argument typed out. But part of me remains the lady my grandmother tried to teach me to be, so rather than argue with someone pointlessly, I simply decided it would be easier and less of a headache to simply bow out, simply because he felt the need to read into what I was saying rather than read what I was actually saying.

I'm not your typical woman, Mister Stark, I say no when I mean no and yes when I mean yes. Fine is still dangerous territory though.

And as for the 'Specific people whom I think are not sufficiently open-minded', I have had fingers pointed at me in the very worst way possible. In the way that meant almost sure death, once I got tired of being stubborn and trying to escape it. Good or bad I'm not going to point fingers or list names, on pain of death, because it was done to me. The people who aren't sufficiently open-minded, know who they are, if it was your business, or his for that matter, you would know who they are. And if what I said made others think I was speaking to them, or about them... Well that's hardly my fault, especially if I haven't bothered to speak, or share words with them in any form.

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[info]tonystark
2013-06-24 05:23 pm UTC (link)
Where is the portrait? I would like to pick it up and put it somewhere safe.

But don't you see what you're actually saying? You're not saying no when you mean no and yes when you mean yes. You're saying, "anyone who doesn't realize that they know absolutely nothing is an idiot," while also saying, "I know enough to tell certain people that they know nothing, and that they should behave differently." You're saying everyone is an idiot, but holding yourself above this as someone who knows that others are idiots.

You actually have bothered to speak and share your words with them. With a passive-aggressive, indirect callout in which you pointed fingers at everyone but yourself. The way you said this, and the things you've since said to Dorian, indicate that you have no interest in opening your own mind.

You stated, explicitly, that you wrote Dorian off the moment he got here, without even speaking to him, based on something you read in a book. What is that, if not prejudice? You can say that it was a book about him, and you'd be correct, but that doesn't mean it tells his whole story. It doesn't tell you who he is now, or who he's trying to be. You also made some pretty broad statements about women, men, and people from your home state in defending your point.

The only person in this post who has been making unfair judgements, Miss Walker, is you.

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[info]maryanne_walker
2013-06-24 10:51 pm UTC (link)
Now why would I tell you something like that?

Actually I'm saying exactly what I said. I'm not spelling something out that's not there. I'm not raising myself up above anyone. I'm not even saying "they" should change. The only thing that may be written in the original words that isn't exactly there, is the plea to open their mind. Not one single person that answered this post was in my mind when I wrote it.

I said the first young man was, but that was a blatant lie, because he gave me reason to attack him. As he attacked someone I happen to care about, someone one that did little to him besides state that she spoke a language that he didn't. I felt the need to be a bitch, and knock him down a peg or two.

I never said anywhere that I wasn't closed off. I know I close myself off. Once you're here a little while you'll understand a little better why I do. But, I will say, that Mister Gray said himself that he was a man that lived without guilt or remorse. Why would I want to share myself with someone like that, let alone want to learn anything about him? I'll be the first to admit that I'm often a glutton for punishment, but I'm not that much of a glutton. I'm not going to put myself out to someone who is more likely to reticule me, as he has done when I simply tried to release myself from conversation with him, for my trouble.

There's not a soul in this place that judges themselves more harshly than I do. In fact Elladan, and Mister Gray both chided me for doing just that. I wasn't defending myself I was simply stating what I see as fact about myself. I don't see myself as wise, what wisdom do I have to impart to do so?

But as through with him as I tried to be, I think I'll depart from conversation with you, as well. You both will read into things what you wish to, no matter what I say. I could be saying something as simple as the grass is green, and I'm sure there would be some quarrel with it. There's little point in trying to change an opinion that wont be changed, and so I'm not going to talk in circles with you anymore. Have a good stay here Mister Stark.

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[info]tonystark
2013-06-25 01:54 am UTC (link)
It doesn't matter why you close yourself off. The point, really, is that you were being closed off while encouraging others to be open. Now you're telling me that you have reasons to close your mind, but that doesn't matter. Everyone who closes their mind thinks that they are right to do so.

I understand that you are a mutant. Mutants have gone through hell, and I get that. I won't comment on your experiences with that except to say that I know they were hellish, and I'm sorry you had to experience them. But your bad experiences don't make you immune to being shitty in the same ways. Magneto being a classic example.

And you still won't address the issues. All you're talking about is why I should trust your word, and why I shouldn't trust his. None of this supports any argument. You're not even arguing with me, really. You're just telling me you can't be wrong because your life was sadder than his. I mean, my dad didn't love me. Does that mean I can never be prejudiced or wrong about anything because something shitty happened to me once?

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Tony | Dorian
[info]hedonism
2013-06-25 01:56 am UTC (link)
Tony.

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Tony | Dorian
[info]tonystark
2013-06-25 01:58 am UTC (link)
Sorry.

I'll stop.

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Tony | Dorian
[info]hedonism
2013-06-25 02:09 am UTC (link)
She's not worth you getting upset.

And neither am I.

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Tony | Dorian - [info]tonystark, 2013-06-25 02:16 am UTC
Tony | Dorian - [info]hedonism, 2013-06-25 02:21 am UTC
Tony | Dorian - [info]tonystark, 2013-06-25 02:34 am UTC
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[info]maryanne_walker
2013-06-25 02:34 am UTC (link)
Okay, there's racism just like there was back home, Tony. Right here. On this little island. It's not as bad. I don't have a horde of bible beating Baptists trying to find me in their crosshairs. That is what this is about. It's humans and elves. Nothing in between, and guess who's grabbed the wrong end of the pooh stick. I'm not human, I'm not shamed enough to hide behind them either. Or the 'title'.

And the people I care about should feel shame, why? Because they're not a fucking fae creature? Tony I'd take one of you on your worst day, over ten of them.

I can't let it escalate to what it was at home. There aren't 198 here. There's me, and there's X. I have a son, and my brother that I have to protect. She has two babies that she swore to take care of, while her best friend lay dying.

They were ready to wage war on the Dragonriders, because they rode dragons onto the island. One very close to death. If that's what all it takes, who's next?

If three little quotes that aren't even mine make them pause and at least think... Then what could it hurt?

This wasn't about Dorian Gray. No I don't trust him, but I can count the people I do on two hands, and I probably have fingers left over. But how can I afford to trust anyone so easily?

So there, you have it. You stripped me clean. Happy now?

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