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Lothíriel, Queen of Rohan | Lord of the Rings ([info]queenofrohan) wrote in [info]compass_network,
@ 2013-04-15 02:03:00

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Entry tags:!open, maryanne walker (oe)

Love is a cruel myth created to make women obey.

Men do not love us. They may be fond of us, but they think only of themselves, and when they tire of us...then all the words they have told us mean nothing. And if we are foolish enough to believe them, and love them in return...

Then we are heartbroken.

And we must simply live with this. It is as my father says. It is my burden to bear, and I must do my duty.

So it is. So it always will be.



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[info]maryanne_walker
2013-04-15 06:09 am UTC (link)
Amen sister.

But, you know... Damn the man and fight the power. Be your own woman.

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[info]queenofrohan
2013-04-15 06:10 am UTC (link)
I have duties to my husband, but I wish I could.

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[info]maryanne_walker
2013-04-15 06:17 am UTC (link)
What duties? Make him serve you. Or tie his ass up and take what you need.

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(no subject) - [info]queenofrohan, 2013-04-15 06:18 am UTC
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[info]_eames
2013-04-15 06:58 am UTC (link)
Yeah, there's that, or, or, you know, sometimes women promise you the world, sometimes they tell you they love you and that they're having your child, and then they turn around and say they're going back to their ex and they're taking your unborn child with them to be raised by another man.

But no, I'm sure it was because of me, I'm sure you're right and I've deserved every agonising hour of missing them because of my gender.

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[info]queenofrohan
2013-04-15 08:30 am UTC (link)
I'm sorry.

Maybe love doesn't exist at all.

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[info]living_history
2013-04-15 10:05 am UTC (link)
A bit over the top Lothiriel, don't you think? Has Eomer ever been unfaithful to you since you've been married? And are you going to just sit there and let this woman sweep in and take your man without a fight?

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[info]queenofrohan
2013-04-15 06:14 pm UTC (link)
I do not know if he has. How would I know? I am not with him every moment of every day. Or even every day. He has patrols, and important things to do that take him from me for days.

Should I fight, when it is what he wants?

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[info]living_history
2013-04-15 06:35 pm UTC (link)
What do you want? I don't care about him, we're talking about you.

Has he said he wants to leave you for her? If you love him then fight for him, don't just meekly accept whatever life throws at you.

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(no subject) - [info]queenofrohan, 2013-04-15 06:43 pm UTC
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[info]blacktwin
2013-04-15 10:22 am UTC (link)
I'm with Eames on this. The last woman I had a relationship with dated someone else behind my back and the one before that tried to kill me. You shouldn't be all sterotypes about this.

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[info]queenofrohan
2013-04-15 06:15 pm UTC (link)
There are bad women, but men have more freedom.

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[info]blacktwin
2013-04-15 06:24 pm UTC (link)
Why? What keeps you from being free? What you do is your choice.

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(no subject) - [info]queenofrohan, 2013-04-15 06:28 pm UTC
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[info]greywhite
2013-04-15 01:39 pm UTC (link)
Yeah I'm just going to point out being in love's never made me obey anyone quite the opposite really

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[info]queenofrohan
2013-04-15 06:15 pm UTC (link)
Your world is different. I must obey; love or not.

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[info]greywhite
2013-04-15 06:19 pm UTC (link)
Good job you're not there anymore than, isn't it?

Although y'know I'm not sure it's that much to do with my world, some people in it are like that. I mean when you get married you used to have to promise to 'love, honour and obey'. It's just that not everyone thinks that way and certainly not the sort of men I've ever associated with.

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[info]loves_abeast
2013-04-15 01:58 pm UTC (link)
That's not true. Love may be rare but it's most certainly not a myth. And as for it making women obey men--that's hardly what I've seen in most cases. Love doesn't make people obedient. If anything it makes them fight, makes them strong, to protect it.

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[info]queenofrohan
2013-04-15 06:16 pm UTC (link)
I thought I knew love, but it was a lie.

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[info]loves_abeast
2013-04-15 06:19 pm UTC (link)
No, the way you spoke--I know love, and that seemed as true as anything I've known. Just because something or someone stands in the way, someone doubts or falters, it doesn't mean it's not true. It only means you have to fight harder.

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(no subject) - [info]queenofrohan, 2013-04-15 06:24 pm UTC
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[info]cover_story
2013-04-15 03:10 pm UTC (link)
I'm afraid I have to concur with everyone here who's telling you that isn't LOVE or even a woman's CURSE, that "makes you obey", milady! I mean, honestly, the only man I ever thought about Obeying to that degree, was someone I didn't LOVE, but in fact, FEARED...! For a good reason, mind you... But still..!

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[info]queenofrohan
2013-04-15 06:16 pm UTC (link)
Love and fear often go together. My father says it is more important that a woman obey and fear her husband than it is for her to love him.

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(no subject) - [info]cover_story, 2013-04-16 11:34 pm UTC

[info]asummersday
2013-04-15 06:37 pm UTC (link)
What was that you were saying the other day about hugs and kisses and rainbows and unicorns?

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[info]queenofrohan
2013-04-15 06:44 pm UTC (link)
I was deceived.

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(no subject) - [info]queenofrohan, 2013-04-15 06:53 pm UTC
Lothíriel
[info]imrahil
2013-04-15 07:35 pm UTC (link)
How ridiculous you are.

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Re: Lothíriel
[info]queenofrohan
2013-04-15 07:37 pm UTC (link)
How am I ridiculous?

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Lothíriel | Imrahil - [info]imrahil, 2013-04-15 07:38 pm UTC
Lothíriel | Imrahil - [info]queenofrohan, 2013-04-15 07:48 pm UTC
Lothíriel | Imrahil - [info]queenofrohan, 2013-04-15 08:37 pm UTC
Lothíriel | Imrahil - [info]imrahil, 2013-04-15 08:38 pm UTC
Lothíriel | Imrahil - [info]queenofrohan, 2013-04-15 08:39 pm UTC
Lothíriel | Imrahil - [info]imrahil, 2013-04-15 08:41 pm UTC
Lothíriel | Imrahil - [info]queenofrohan, 2013-04-15 08:44 pm UTC
Lothíriel | Imrahil - [info]imrahil, 2013-04-15 08:47 pm UTC
Re: Lothíriel | Imrahil - [info]queenofrohan, 2013-04-15 08:49 pm UTC
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Lothíriel | Imrahil - [info]queenofrohan, 2013-04-15 09:08 pm UTC
Lothíriel | Imrahil - [info]queenofrohan, 2013-04-15 08:38 pm UTC

[info]itarille
2013-04-15 07:45 pm UTC (link)
I do not think that is the case for all Men.

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[info]queenofrohan
2013-04-15 07:49 pm UTC (link)
Perhaps not.

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