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Tweak says, "everything is permitted"

James T. Kirk, Captain of the starship Enterprise (captcasanova) wrote in wariscomingcom,
@ 2013-07-26 14:29:00

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james kirk, oswin oswald

Oswin
I have basically been a serial womanizer since women noticed me. I flirt and I don't ever see a woman more than once. And right now? I'm breaking my own rules. I just need to figure some things out. Can we talk? I trust your opinions.

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	dreamtitall 2013-07-26 11:39 pm UTC (link)
	Of course we can. (Reply to this) (Thread)

captcasanova
2013-07-27 03:05 am UTC (link)

Okay. I don't date. I avoid any type of commitment like the plague, which is why I'm never with the same woman twice. Most women are okay with a one night stand. The ones that aren't have always freaked me out. So that's what I was like before I died.

I haven't done much of anything with women since then. I've flirted, but it hasn't really gone anywhere. Ginger is the first woman I've been interested in in a long time. And I already broke my "one time only" rule with her. I'm not looking for a relationship with her, I don't think. I like what we have, and I don't want to screw it up. Any advice on what I should do?

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dreamtitall
2013-07-27 03:14 am UTC (link)

Well, I've always been one who just enjoyed the fun flings. I never really had rules on the matter and I just went where things would take me.

I think that dying does make us re-evaluate our lives. I mean... it's death and is supposed to be final. Add in being in a new place and trying to adjust, I can maybe see that? Maybe? Or like you said, you like what you have. If she's not pushing for a relationship, then it shouldn't be a concern right now. I'm all for experiencing things and living.

And that rules are often meant to be broken. So what if you have a normal rule of one time only. It doesn't have to be serious if neither of you want it to be. Just see what happens.

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	captcasanova 2013-07-27 03:49 am UTC (link)
	Okay. That all makes sense. I just...I had all these thoughts in my head and I wanted to run them by someone before I said something stupid to her. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	dreamtitall 2013-07-27 04:31 am UTC (link)
	Glad to be of help, dear. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	captcasanova 2013-07-27 05:06 am UTC (link)
	Thanks. If the tea ever comes back you and I should go to the shop you mentioned. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	dreamtitall 2013-07-27 05:14 am UTC (link)
	Oh believe me, it better come back. Or I will demand the Doctor take me to other states for tea. I don't need it to survive but I would like to be able to have it again. But yes. We most certainly will. (Reply to this) (Parent)