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Klara Guildsen ([info]lostababyfang) wrote in [info]marinanova,
@ 2013-09-18 00:22:00

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Entry tags::mingle, alex karev, asami sato, calliope-caliborn, data, euphemia li britannia, hatsuharu sohma, hei, helix wamtani, jessica hamby, klara guildsen, lelouch vi britannia, liz forbes, piter de vries, saetan sadiablo, sarah manning, sougo okita, spencer reid, stefan salvatore, tear grants, yuuki kuran, zero kiryuu

[Day 237] FAMILY ISSUES GROUP THERAPY MINGLE
[Anyone brought to this group will find that there are tables set up around the perimeter of the room, one with snacks and drinks, some even with art supplies on them, while the chairs are all pushed into a circle in the middle. There is a projector set up to one side and it flashes images every so often onto the wall. Images of children, adults, the elderly with the young--some of them more formal, posed, others candid as the brief moments of life they were. Some of these images might even be familiar to certain inmates. It shouldn't be hard for them to pick out their own families after all.

In the center of the circle of chairs is a table with a large bowl of treats, wrapped candies of various sorts. Hard candies, caramels, chocolates, taffy. Beside the bowl is a set of cards with instructions written on the back of them.

"Select a card and read the question aloud to the group. Whoever answers the question gets to choose a reward from the bowl and then select the next card. Continue until all of the cards have been viewed or the bowl is empty. More than one person can answer--the first to respond gets to select the next card. If no one volunteers, the card picker gets to select a person."

The cards themselves have a variety of questions and tasks, but they all have a very similar theme.]

1. What does "family" mean to you?
2. Draw a picture of your family and describe it to the group.
3. What is your ideal family unit?
4. Do you have any siblings? If so, what are they like? If not, what would you do if you found out you had one you had never met before?
5. Have you ever done something to hurt or upset a member of your family on purpose?
6. What is the strongest memory you have of your mother and/or father?
7. Imitate one of your parents when reprimanding you.
8. Have you ever felt like an outsider in your family?
9. What is something you have done to a member of your family or they had done to you that took a long time to move beyond (if ever)?
10. Who are you closest to in your family?
11. How many close family members have you lost?


{OOC: Mingle! These questions are not the only ones. Feel free to come up with more. Also the candy in the bowl is spiked just like the pastries and coffee, so the more characters eat...you get the picture.}


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[info]satomobility
2013-10-02 07:22 am UTC (link)
Well, what does not special back home mean?

You and I might have very different ideas about what's normal, you know.

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[info]lostababyfang
2013-10-03 04:38 pm UTC (link)
I have two parents. They have jobs. We lived in a nice house. We had a cook and a maid. Not everyone back home has money, but we were a normal family.

[She doesn't realize that she's used past tense more than once.]

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[info]satomobility
2013-10-04 08:40 am UTC (link)
What happened? [She doesn't comment directly, but she doesn't fail to notice.]

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[info]lostababyfang
2013-10-04 07:23 pm UTC (link)
Things changed. We moved. I don't see them as much. [She hasn't seen her mother in decades.] Lots of parents are busy like that. My friend Ame--Ama--Amy...[she can't be sure of her name, how could she have forgotten?]...she used to have her butler drive her everywhere because her parents were always away in Los Angeles.

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[info]satomobility
2013-10-06 11:04 am UTC (link)
That part doesn't change too much between worlds, I guess.

You don't live by yourself, though, do you?

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[info]lostababyfang
2013-10-06 11:18 am UTC (link)
My parents and I live in the same house, back home, if that's what you mean. It's against the law for me to live on my own.

[Here she does, but that's because it's safer that way.] What about your family?

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[info]satomobility
2013-10-06 03:41 pm UTC (link)
Huh.

I don't have one anymore. I lost my mother a long time ago, and I lost my father...

[She's quiet for a second, thinking back. She may not have realized it until recently, but...] a long time ago too.

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[info]lostababyfang
2013-10-07 10:26 am UTC (link)
[She feels guilty then, because she hadn't meant to ask a question that could be painful.]

I'm sorry.

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[info]satomobility
2013-10-12 08:32 pm UTC (link)
It's alright.

I'm... making my peace with it. One step at a time.

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