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Klara Guildsen ([info]lostababyfang) wrote in [info]marinanova,
@ 2013-09-18 00:22:00

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Entry tags::mingle, alex karev, asami sato, calliope-caliborn, data, euphemia li britannia, hatsuharu sohma, hei, helix wamtani, jessica hamby, klara guildsen, lelouch vi britannia, liz forbes, piter de vries, saetan sadiablo, sarah manning, sougo okita, spencer reid, stefan salvatore, tear grants, yuuki kuran, zero kiryuu

[Day 237] FAMILY ISSUES GROUP THERAPY MINGLE
[Anyone brought to this group will find that there are tables set up around the perimeter of the room, one with snacks and drinks, some even with art supplies on them, while the chairs are all pushed into a circle in the middle. There is a projector set up to one side and it flashes images every so often onto the wall. Images of children, adults, the elderly with the young--some of them more formal, posed, others candid as the brief moments of life they were. Some of these images might even be familiar to certain inmates. It shouldn't be hard for them to pick out their own families after all.

In the center of the circle of chairs is a table with a large bowl of treats, wrapped candies of various sorts. Hard candies, caramels, chocolates, taffy. Beside the bowl is a set of cards with instructions written on the back of them.

"Select a card and read the question aloud to the group. Whoever answers the question gets to choose a reward from the bowl and then select the next card. Continue until all of the cards have been viewed or the bowl is empty. More than one person can answer--the first to respond gets to select the next card. If no one volunteers, the card picker gets to select a person."

The cards themselves have a variety of questions and tasks, but they all have a very similar theme.]

1. What does "family" mean to you?
2. Draw a picture of your family and describe it to the group.
3. What is your ideal family unit?
4. Do you have any siblings? If so, what are they like? If not, what would you do if you found out you had one you had never met before?
5. Have you ever done something to hurt or upset a member of your family on purpose?
6. What is the strongest memory you have of your mother and/or father?
7. Imitate one of your parents when reprimanding you.
8. Have you ever felt like an outsider in your family?
9. What is something you have done to a member of your family or they had done to you that took a long time to move beyond (if ever)?
10. Who are you closest to in your family?
11. How many close family members have you lost?


{OOC: Mingle! These questions are not the only ones. Feel free to come up with more. Also the candy in the bowl is spiked just like the pastries and coffee, so the more characters eat...you get the picture.}


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[info]moostery
2013-09-18 09:08 pm UTC (link)
[Hatsuharu is very calm and relaxed. This was definitely something that hit home, but being that certain things had improved back home, none of his issues were things that bothered him much anymore. Still, he felt this could be useful, so he reads through his card once more before reading it out loud.]

Have you ever done something to hurt or upset a member of your family on purpose?

[He nods.]

I've threatened to kill the head of the family once. It was necessary, though, with the torture he puts other relatives through.

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[info]sheriffed
2013-09-18 09:29 pm UTC (link)
Once. And it was for a very good reason.

[ she's got one hand massaging her temple. this whole thing is stupid and obnoxious. ]

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[info]moostery
2013-09-18 11:20 pm UTC (link)
Don't you just hate it when someone gives you a reason? You'd never think it would happen with family.

[He says in a disappointing manner.]

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[info]sheriffed
2013-09-19 10:40 am UTC (link)
It wasn't her fault. The situation was... extreme. [ which is vague, but she doesn't want to divulge too much. not enough coffee for that. ] I agree with you, but sometimes the situation demands it.

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[info]moostery
2013-09-19 08:08 pm UTC (link)
Extreme situations within families are so sad. It certainly taints the views people have of family in these situations.

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[info]sheriffed
2013-09-20 11:33 pm UTC (link)
But it makes you want to hold onto them all the more if you still love them.

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[info]moostery
2013-09-21 08:44 pm UTC (link)
Yeah, you're right; it does.

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[info]trappedinresin
2013-09-18 10:26 pm UTC (link)
Did it make that person stop? [Curious, but only if he's willing to answer. Family issues are sensitive after all.]

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[info]moostery
2013-09-18 10:59 pm UTC (link)
[He is just going to take a moment to think about that.]

I'm not sure. He didn't try to kill my girlfriend again, but I couldn't tell you whether he acted out on others.

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[info]trappedinresin
2013-09-18 11:02 pm UTC (link)
[Kill his... Ah. How terrible and frightening that had to have been.]

I'm glad she's all right now, at the very least. I don't think I would have been able to sit passively aside, either. [Good for him]

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[info]moostery
2013-09-18 11:08 pm UTC (link)
You gotta do what you gotta do for the people you love, especially when they don't have the ability to stand up for themselves.

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[info]trappedinresin
2013-09-18 11:13 pm UTC (link)
It sounds like she's one lucky girl! [Despite his delinquent appearance, that's so knightly. It's sweet.]

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[info]moostery
2013-09-18 11:22 pm UTC (link)
I hope she thinks so too. [He smiles a little.] Just like any couple, we have our own issues, but I'd like to think we can work anything out.

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[info]trappedinresin
2013-09-18 11:37 pm UTC (link)
That's the ideal in a relationship, isn't it.

[That a couple be able to sort things out. Although that isn't always the case...]

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[info]moostery
2013-09-19 12:02 am UTC (link)
It is for me. Everyone has different needs and needs to find what works best, right?

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[info]trappedinresin
2013-09-19 12:06 am UTC (link)
I'd prefer that it always worked out your way.

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[info]moostery
2013-09-19 08:05 pm UTC (link)
Then please do your best and communicate. I don't know your situation, but never be afraid to speak with each other.

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[info]bluemoondog
2013-09-20 12:18 pm UTC (link)
Heh, Ditto. I still have a plan to kill the bastard so I can be free of his bullshit.

[And bring down one of the most powerful syndicates in the galaxy. But really, he's not doing it to be a hero.]

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[info]moostery
2013-09-20 07:04 pm UTC (link)
[Oh, that sounded absolutely terrible.]

Sorry to hear that you can relate. I wouldn't wish this sort of thing on anyone.

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[info]bluemoondog
2013-09-21 10:57 am UTC (link)
[Gosh stop making people feel terrible when you don't.]

Ah... it's uh. It's, yeah me either, it's not really... [No. It is terrible. It was a shitty life he lived and was forced to survive. And that man should die for it. The stuff making him more truthful is making it hard for him to put on a non-nonchalant face and pretend it's okay.]

Did... he kill anyone?

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[info]moostery
2013-09-21 08:47 pm UTC (link)
[Hastuharu shakes his head.]

Nah, he didn't, but he's tried once, twice, maybe even more than that. Especially if they're women.

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[info]bluemoondog
2013-09-24 04:03 pm UTC (link)
Tch, sounds like a real winner.

[A pause.]

No way to get the hell away from him huh?

[Or save the others but sometimes you gotta do what you gotto do to save yourself.]

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[info]moostery
2013-09-24 04:20 pm UTC (link)
I have cousins to protect. We are also all bonded together, whether we like it or not. Anyway you slice it, we are trapped.

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[info]bluemoondog
2013-09-24 04:22 pm UTC (link)
Unless you take out the head?

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[info]moostery
2013-09-24 04:33 pm UTC (link)
Exactly.

[He sighs.]

It's like one of those secretly dysfunctional families you see on TV, except it's real.

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