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Sam Winchester (tallerthanthou) wrote in marinanova,
@ 2013-09-16 17:49:00

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[Day 237] Relationship Issues Group Therapy mingle
[The relationships group therapy attendees will all get a message telling them to report to The Winery in Sector 2. Sadly for them the alcohol is locked away, but there is an assortment of food and non-alcoholic beverages along the bar for consumption. Many of the tables have been cleared out and the chairs rearranged into a circle with booths along the edges for more intimate therapeutic discussions.

And don't forget the party favors! The wardens have left some helpful games and activity ideas to get them started. There's a bowl full of folded slips of papers with various questions.]

How many people have you slept with? Do you regret any of them? Why?

How many relationships have you been in? Why do you think that is?

What was your longest relationship? Most serious? Shortest? Most casual?

Why did your last relationship end?

What do you look for in another person?

Are you happy?

Who is your ideal mate?

What was the biggest problem/complication in your previous or current relationship?

What do you need out of a relationship? Sexual experience?

How long have you been single between relationships? Why do you think it was so long/short?

What is the best way to break up with someone?

Do you believe in soul mates? Do you think you have or will meet yours?

Would you rather spend your life with one important person or several acquaintances? Why?

Are there any similarities between the people you've been with? If so, what are they?

Do you have trouble making choices? Give examples.

Do you think with your heart, your head, or your genitalia? Are you satisfied with this behavior?

Do you have trouble relating to people? If so, in what way?

[In addition to the questions there are cards with various prompts. One explains the game, I Never. Another suggests people pair off and roleplay they are in a relationship and then deal with various scenarios like what do to if one partner flirts with someone else or comes home late without calling.]

Who should do the dishes?

When is it appropriate to discuss getting blue bands/having sex?

When should you move in together if ever?

What do you do if you suspect the other is keeping secrets?

What do you say if your partner comes home with a haircut you don't like?

How do you respond if you find your partner crying?

How do you decide how to spend your time together?

Your partner's family doesn't like you. What do you do?

One of you is critically hurt. How does the other respond?

Your friends don't like the person you're with. What do you say to them? What do you say to your partner?

One of you wants sexual relations and the other does not. How do you balance your needs?

How do you communicate your desire for a particular sexual desire to your partner?

It is your partner's birthday. How do you prepare?

At a party your partner leaves you to socialize with others. How does this make you feel and how do you respond?

How do you show your affection?

(OOC: Mingle style. You are not limited to the questions, scenarios, or games listed above. Assume there are more! I recycled a lot of this from last time so if someone was in this group twice they can feel free to notice, but assume there are lots of questions and prompts, so they probably didn't see them all.)

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	taciturnbeast 2013-09-17 01:02 pm UTC (link)
	[ This card. Yep. Oz's voice is calm and quiet as he asks it. ] Are there any similarities between the people you've been with? If so, what are they? (Reply to this) (Thread)

	lifelines 2013-09-17 01:47 pm UTC (link)
	They're being awfully general about all of these. There's a difference between being with someone romantically and simply being intimate. [ someone's been into the refreshments. ] (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	taciturnbeast 2013-09-17 02:16 pm UTC (link)
	Group therapy. The land of generalizations. [ Ba-dum-ching! ] I guess it's on us to make them personal? Or not. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lifelines 2013-09-17 02:42 pm UTC (link)
	It would seem so. [ to both comments. his joke gets a smile out of her, though. ] I think I might favor airing on the side of caution and not giving out too much. This is something I would rather do with fewer strangers present. [ not that she considers oz a stranger, but some of these people she's never spoken with before now. ] (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	taciturnbeast 2013-09-17 07:06 pm UTC (link)
	Agreement. [ He completely understands that. Completely. There are too many ears around. Although... ] But it does make you think. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	fields_of_hope 2013-09-17 01:56 pm UTC (link)
	[With an equal weight in her tone, Lacus can't help but address that question.] It's as if some of these questions were designed to be more upsetting than therapeutic. Not that I'm terribly surprised. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	fields_of_hope 2013-09-17 02:22 pm UTC (link)
	[She nods and sips at her tea.] It's an unfair question, particularly when you're being forced into answering. Those we care for deserve better than to be compared so. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)