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Calliope // Caliborn ([info]ophiuchus) wrote in [info]marinanova,
@ 2013-09-16 10:45:00

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Entry tags::mingle, calliope-caliborn, dawn summers, sougo okita, yuuri shibuya

[Day 237] Self-Esteem Group Therapy Mingle
[Should you be lucky enough to get enrolled into this group, you will be led to the beach—specifically, one of the beach huts in a low-traffic area, which has been primed with an assortment of chairs organized in a circle around a table. All the delicious and comforting snacks and beverages you could want await you in the back of the hut.]

[It's a very relaxing setup: an ocean-side view, the soothing sound of waves washing along the shore, and the salty sea air permeating everything. Just ignore the bots hovering the perimeter a few yards beyond the hut. They won't bother you unless you try to escape.]

[On the central table are a series of activity suggestions:]

• Each person will take a turn around the circle saying their name and offering one positive quality or talent they genuinely like about themselves. Others are welcome to speak up if they share that trait. Make a friend!

• In groups or pairs, the participants will come up with three words that they would use to describe their ideal self, no matter how impossible it may feel to be that way. They must then phrase these into an "I am" statement, and the other(s) present will affirm them.

• The group takes turns focusing on one person. This person will become the target of a barrage of kindness: genuine compliments, hugs, high-fives, or other caring and affirming gestures are go! The recipient of these is encouraged to take their time digesting everything before the group moves on to the next person.

• Participants tell a story about a time when they felt as though they accomplished something that they are incredibly proud of. Big or small!

[... But feel free to come up with more!]



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[info]demon_king
2013-09-16 07:57 pm UTC (link)
Are you cold? [If only he could read brackets so he knew the lie he was looking at!]

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[info]ophiuchus
2013-09-16 08:36 pm UTC (link)
Noooo.

[She peers out at him, figuring that her nerves are no excuse to be rude to someone who has been kind to her.] Hello, Yuuri. I wouldn't have expected to find you... here.

[Ominously. She read those activity outlines first thing.]

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[info]demon_king
2013-09-18 07:01 pm UTC (link)
[He looks left and he looks right. He's considering looking up and down, but he chooses not to. There are no answers there! Probably.] Why not here? It's where they told me to go.

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[info]ophiuchus
2013-09-18 07:10 pm UTC (link)
This...

[She whispers conspiratorially.] They're going to force us to say nice things about ourselves.

[And then normally.] Which is fine when there are nice things to say, as is the case for you, I'm sure!

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[info]demon_king
2013-09-18 07:15 pm UTC (link)
[That sounded so much scarier coming in the form of a whisper.] Um...but aren't there nice things to say about everyone?

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[info]ophiuchus
2013-09-18 07:21 pm UTC (link)
Well, of course! I can think of plenty for you without even knowing you too well. Hence my shock at your being here!

Not that I think this is necessary for myself, mind you. It's unproductive and incredibly stupid. No one needs to be party to the fact that I only possess a slim quantity of positive traits.

[So, so, so matter of fact.]

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[info]demon_king
2013-09-22 10:24 pm UTC (link)
[He just has so much confusion in you general direction right now. He doesn't even speak for a little bit. Where to start?]

I don't think I understand why I'm a surprise, but you have lots of positive traits! [He believes this with all the belief. It is not him being polite. It doesn't seem to matter he doesn't know her well at all. Why let something like no ability to list good traits get in the way of knowing they are there?]

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[info]ophiuchus
2013-09-28 02:08 am UTC (link)
Some!

Definitely some. [She'll concede to that.] I'm kind and helpful to others, and I can draw well, and I'm not too terrible of a writer! I'm clever at chess, too.

[Aaaand that's about it.] Why don't you tell me yours, love?

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[info]demon_king
2013-09-30 12:02 am UTC (link)
See! I knew you could think of some!

[Oh no you didn't.] Me? Oh...

[He's thinking. Thinking... Thinking...]

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[info]ophiuchus
2013-09-30 09:54 pm UTC (link)
[She leans forward and stares at him, the longer he takes.]

Yuuri...

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[info]demon_king
2013-09-30 11:25 pm UTC (link)
[He is being stared at!] Um, yeah?

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[info]ophiuchus
2013-10-02 01:27 am UTC (link)
[She makes eye contact, and then smiles.]

Go on. Tell me good things about yourself.

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[info]demon_king
2013-10-20 12:41 am UTC (link)
Oh, right, that... [This is much harder than it should be, and instead of thinking of good things he is reviewing all his failures which is probably why the next part comes out.]

I haven't kissed anyone in awhile. [Because kissing was the first step to a huge rift between him and Wolfram and then Conrad was turned into a vampire and really everything was just very bad for a long time here. Kissing ruins things!]

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