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Calliope // Caliborn ([info]ophiuchus) wrote in [info]marinanova,
@ 2013-09-16 10:45:00

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Entry tags::mingle, calliope-caliborn, dawn summers, sougo okita, yuuri shibuya

[Day 237] Self-Esteem Group Therapy Mingle
[Should you be lucky enough to get enrolled into this group, you will be led to the beach—specifically, one of the beach huts in a low-traffic area, which has been primed with an assortment of chairs organized in a circle around a table. All the delicious and comforting snacks and beverages you could want await you in the back of the hut.]

[It's a very relaxing setup: an ocean-side view, the soothing sound of waves washing along the shore, and the salty sea air permeating everything. Just ignore the bots hovering the perimeter a few yards beyond the hut. They won't bother you unless you try to escape.]

[On the central table are a series of activity suggestions:]

• Each person will take a turn around the circle saying their name and offering one positive quality or talent they genuinely like about themselves. Others are welcome to speak up if they share that trait. Make a friend!

• In groups or pairs, the participants will come up with three words that they would use to describe their ideal self, no matter how impossible it may feel to be that way. They must then phrase these into an "I am" statement, and the other(s) present will affirm them.

• The group takes turns focusing on one person. This person will become the target of a barrage of kindness: genuine compliments, hugs, high-fives, or other caring and affirming gestures are go! The recipient of these is encouraged to take their time digesting everything before the group moves on to the next person.

• Participants tell a story about a time when they felt as though they accomplished something that they are incredibly proud of. Big or small!

[... But feel free to come up with more!]



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[info]ophiuchus
2013-09-16 12:30 pm UTC (link)
[Calliope, realizing what this group is seemingly meant to entail, absolutely does not want to be here.]

[She's not so much sitting as slumping in her chair, lanky legs curled under her and arms laying wherever they will. She is clutching a cup of hot cocoa between her hands, as though for warmth, even though it's not actually cold. She takes occasional breaks to make sure her hoodie is still casting her face in as much shadow as morning in a beach hut will allow.]

[She just feels worse as more people arrive.]

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[info]demon_king
2013-09-16 07:57 pm UTC (link)
Are you cold? [If only he could read brackets so he knew the lie he was looking at!]

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[info]ophiuchus
2013-09-16 08:36 pm UTC (link)
Noooo.

[She peers out at him, figuring that her nerves are no excuse to be rude to someone who has been kind to her.] Hello, Yuuri. I wouldn't have expected to find you... here.

[Ominously. She read those activity outlines first thing.]

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[info]demon_king
2013-09-18 07:01 pm UTC (link)
[He looks left and he looks right. He's considering looking up and down, but he chooses not to. There are no answers there! Probably.] Why not here? It's where they told me to go.

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[info]ophiuchus
2013-09-18 07:10 pm UTC (link)
This...

[She whispers conspiratorially.] They're going to force us to say nice things about ourselves.

[And then normally.] Which is fine when there are nice things to say, as is the case for you, I'm sure!

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[info]demon_king
2013-09-18 07:15 pm UTC (link)
[That sounded so much scarier coming in the form of a whisper.] Um...but aren't there nice things to say about everyone?

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(no subject) - [info]ophiuchus, 2013-09-18 07:21 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]demon_king, 2013-09-22 10:24 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]ophiuchus, 2013-09-28 02:08 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]demon_king, 2013-09-30 12:02 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]ophiuchus, 2013-09-30 09:54 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]demon_king, 2013-09-30 11:25 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]ophiuchus, 2013-10-02 01:27 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]demon_king, 2013-10-20 12:41 am UTC

[info]the_dawnster
2013-09-17 01:26 pm UTC (link)
[ Dawn has no problem going up to people she doesn't know and saying hello. Shyness is not a problem she has. So she plops down into a chair by Calliope and sighs. ]

This is so not as much fun as the classes where you can actually learn things. Is the hot chocolate any good?

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[info]ophiuchus
2013-09-17 01:34 pm UTC (link)
[Meanwhile, Calliope is the shyest magic alien to be found, and so while she does not try to give Dawn a cold shoulder, she is lacking in the infectious enthusiasm she has when she is comfortable with someone, and also not in a situation where she will have to talk about herself.]

[At least for now. The cocoa should gradually start doing its thing.]


It's very tasty.

Would you like a sip?

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[info]the_dawnster
2013-09-17 01:58 pm UTC (link)
[ It was so very nice of her to offer a taste though, so that's something. It makes Dawn smile a bit. ]

No, that's okay. My tummy's a little queasy. Thanks though [ Nerves. All the nervous nerves of nervousness. ] I'm Dawn. Which I announced to everyone so you're probably in the know on that one. What's your name?

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[info]ophiuchus
2013-09-17 04:13 pm UTC (link)
Mm. [She clutches the cup closer to herself, chancing to actually look a little more closely at Dawn.]

It's a pleasure to meet you, Dawn. [Even while she's all but shivering in her chair.] Please call me Callie. It's short for my true name.

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(no subject) - [info]the_dawnster, 2013-09-17 07:15 pm UTC
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[info]demon_king
2013-09-16 07:56 pm UTC (link)
[Yuuri looks around while eating some odd looking pastry when the turn passes to him to introduce himself.] Uh, hi. I'm Yuuri Shibuya and I like baseball. [Liking something is a positive quality or trait, right? Totally counts.

Or, you know, find him later on as he tries to figure out what he should be doing.]

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[info]the_dawnster
2013-09-17 01:23 pm UTC (link)
Hi Yuuri. [ She offers a quick wave. ] I like baseball too. Or... more accurately, I like watching boys play baseball. Cause of the eye candy. [ Awkward. ]

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[info]demon_king
2013-09-18 07:02 pm UTC (link)
........They have candy that looks like eyes at baseball games in your world? [What?]

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[info]the_dawnster
2013-09-20 02:11 pm UTC (link)
Well... okay yeah they do... mostly around Halloween time. But I was talking about boys looking good and buff and sporty while playing baseball.

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[info]demon_king
2013-09-22 10:21 pm UTC (link)
Oh! I um, I guess that happens too.

[Not that he's noticed!

...

He has totally noticed.]


You should come to one of our games or be on one of our teams! It's more fun to play than watch.

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(no subject) - [info]the_dawnster, 2013-09-23 10:48 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]demon_king, 2013-09-25 11:04 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]the_dawnster, 2013-09-27 10:27 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]demon_king, 2013-09-29 11:44 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]the_dawnster, 2013-09-30 10:39 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]demon_king, 2013-09-30 11:26 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]the_dawnster, 2013-10-02 11:08 am UTC

[info]the_dawnster
2013-09-17 01:20 pm UTC (link)
[ Believe it or not, this overly excited and talkative gal has tons of self-esteem issues. For a lot of reasons. She didn't think anyone else knew that though, so when she found her name on the list for this particular therapy, she was surprised.

She's here though. And offers an awkward little wave when it's her turn to say her name.
]

Uhm. Hi. Dawn Summers. And hmmm... a positive quality or talent. Uhm... well... I'm a fast reader. And I have really good hair.

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[info]_incurable
2013-09-19 10:09 pm UTC (link)
[He's had more than a few doses of tainted coffee, so Zelgadis has his hood and mask off for a change. His stone skin and shiny wire hair aren't easily missed, nor are his long, goblin ears which twitch at the din of conversation in the room.]

[He does look a little confused, however...]
That question doesn't make sense. There's a difference between being able to rattle off a couple of good things and actually liking yourself.

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[info]the_dawnster
2013-09-20 02:15 pm UTC (link)
[ See how this girl stares for just a few seconds to take it all in, cause goblin, but isn't too thoroughly phased by the look of him? This is the slayer's little sister. She's seen lots. And his hair is actually pretty cool looking.

She nods.
] Yeah, you're right. There is a difference. But it said to introduce yourself and list a positive quality and that's what I came up with. What about you?

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[info]_incurable
2013-09-26 07:47 pm UTC (link)
Me? [He looks genuinely shocked to be asked. Or acknowledged, really. Isn't she scared of him?]

Uh. I'm good with magic. [And he's known for being eloquent with words but given how stupid he just sounded, he'll go ahead and keep that to himself.]

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[info]the_dawnster
2013-09-27 10:23 am UTC (link)
Oh! I've done some magic too. [ She's so glad for the common ground here. Common grounds make for easier conversation. ]

I mean I'm not like a mega witch or anything but I can do some spells. What's the spell you use the most?

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[info]sadistfaction
2013-09-17 09:45 pm UTC (link)
[This is lame. Therapy? That stuff doesn't work for people, unless they're easily swayed by the words of others! That's what Sougo thought, anyway. Not even the snacks and beverages were enough to make him want to bother with this. He could take those bots. He's not afraid of them!

He sits with his arms crossed with an expression that clearly shows how completely annoyed he is that he is being forced to do this.]


I'm Sougo Okita and I'm really good at killing people, and if this isn't over soon, I'm gonna kill everybody.

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[info]ophiuchus
2013-09-18 01:10 am UTC (link)
[Calliope peers out from under her hoodie. She doesn't necessarily believe that he's being serious, but, just in case, she decides it would be best to try and dissuade him.]

It would hardly be worth the effort.

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[info]sadistfaction
2013-09-18 09:11 pm UTC (link)
Don't matter.

[He shrugs.]

It would be way more a relief than anything that could ever come from something like this.

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[info]ophiuchus
2013-09-18 11:05 pm UTC (link)
[She shifts in her seat uncomfortably.]

What if we make up things to discuss until they let us leave? I don't lie as a rule, but if we treat it as a collaborative work of fiction...

Maybe?

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[info]sadistfaction
2013-09-18 11:13 pm UTC (link)
[Believe it or not, there is actually an impressed look on his face.]

Collaboration of a fictional story, huh. That's the best thing I've heard yet today.

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(no subject) - [info]ophiuchus, 2013-09-18 11:48 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]sadistfaction, 2013-09-19 12:08 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]ophiuchus, 2013-09-19 01:07 am UTC
(no subject) - [info]sadistfaction, 2013-09-19 07:56 pm UTC
(no subject) - [info]ophiuchus, 2013-09-25 08:36 pm UTC


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