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Tweak says, "yeah, he's a total dork"

Cho Quigley (charmingcho) wrote in finnigans_rpg,
@ 2015-07-02 01:17:00

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journal: cho, journal: marietta, journal: melinda

Journal: to Mel & Mari
[Warded to Melinda & Marietta] -- Girls... I'm sort of freaking out. I hadn't been, but then last night I hosted a wedding rehearsal dinner and the Bride & Groom's speeches were so beautiful and I was in the back and I just... Merlin. I've been a wreck ever since and just started crying and what am I doing? It's, like, 8 in the morning. Fin maybe sort of might be falling for me and I just don't know what to do. I'm devastated.

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	_melinda_ 2015-07-02 06:24 am UTC (link)
	Oh, sweetie, don't cry! And don't worry. Fin falling for you is not a bad thing. Quite the contrary. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	to Melinda charmingcho 2015-07-02 04:45 pm UTC (link)
	But it's so much more complicated than that! I just... I'm feeling the same way and he's married! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

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_melinda_
2015-07-02 04:49 pm UTC (link)

Viktor says he's separated, which is quite different from being married. Far be it from me to claim to be an expert on Irish marital laws, but from what I can gather it 'just' means that he can't legally marry you at this point.

Talk to him, love. Ask him all the question so you know, but please, please, please don't ever think it's a bad thing. No, I don't know him as well as I do, but I do know that he has great taste in friends, and said friends are vouching for him.

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	marrededge 2015-07-02 03:13 pm UTC (link)
	Why would you be devastated that he's falling for you? He is a great guy. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	charmingcho 2015-07-02 04:46 pm UTC (link)
	Mari - he's still MARRIED. I know he's wonderful and I'm pretty sure I'm feeling the same way but... well... should I be? And what if I am? And what if I want to marry him? HE'S MARRIED TO SOMEONE ELSE ALREADY! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	marrededge 2015-07-04 06:51 pm UTC (link)
	Wait? WHAT? ~~That explains a good bit about the night we met.~~ How did I not already know this? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	charmingcho 2015-07-05 02:21 am UTC (link)
	~~Oh merlin I can't believe you didn't know that, I thought everyone knew that, I'm so embarra--~~ Oh. Um. They're separated. But it takes a long time, I guess.... ~~Rowena herself couldn't save me from this conversation.~~ Umm...she sort of once kind of set his house on fire. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	marrededge 2015-07-05 07:19 pm UTC (link)
	Don't beat yourself up. You of all people know that I am completely clueless when it comes to any sort of relationship. Perhaps I'm not the person you should be asking for advice. (Reply to this) (Parent)