Hi, sylvanawood,
I would love to affiliate :)
Generally, I place my affiliates' official button on this comm's profile page and, in addition, add them to the sidebar in the journal itself. I expect a somewhat similar exposure in return :)

The buttons are 100x50, the size of a userpic cut in two. This seems to be a good size to not clutter the profile page.
The code for a button can be found here:
http://asylums.insanejournal.com/fandom_how_to/2184.html

I am glad that you like my asylum :) It was made in response to how clueless I was back then - joining the LJ and posting public entries without knowing that they will automatically become a part of the feed. Heh!

May I post an entry about the lj-cut problem with a link to snapedom?
This staff is exactly what this comm is for :D