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Tweak says, "He's dead, Jim."

Peggy Carter (offthepeg) wrote in compass_network,
@ 2013-05-16 16:14:00

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!open, ~isabel lane, ~peggy carter

filtered to the girls
I need some advice.

On Saturday night, Steve is taking me out and apparently we're going dancing but I don't know anything more than that.

He and I are both very shy and quite old-fashioned (but I suppose time is relative here) so I need some advice about... sex.

My mother died long before she could tell me about such things so I'm asking advice here. What is a woman's... role? I know mechanics of course and I've heard gossip but it would be nice to have some honest truth from real people.

More specifically, how do I know that we're both ready for such a step forward? I don't want to risk ruining things.

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	isabellane 2013-05-16 11:21 pm UTC (link)
	Sorry to intrude here but, have you ever ridden a horse? I know it's a strange question, but it is pertinent. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	offthepeg 2013-05-17 07:21 am UTC (link)
	Yes, I rode horses at my grandmother's farm in the Cotswolds... why? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

Peggy

isabellane
2013-05-17 01:25 pm UTC (link)

Part of the cause of the pain of losing ones virginity is the breaking of the hymen. Studies have shown, though, that sometimes horseback riding does that, though in a way that doesn't hurt. So, it's entirely likely that the only pain you'd feel is certain muscles stretching to accommodate something that they're not used to being put in there. And that usually doesn't hurt that much or for very long, especially if he's slow and gentle. So it could end up not hurting at all.

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	Re: Peggy offthepeg 2013-05-17 01:27 pm UTC (link)
	That's a big relief. Thank you Isabel (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Peggy isabellane 2013-05-17 01:35 pm UTC (link)
	No problem at all (Reply to this) (Parent)

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