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Tweak says, "Chill homie"

Sophia Peletier (sophia_peletier) wrote in compass_network,
@ 2018-09-23 23:14:00

Entry tags:

!open, lacey burrows, sophia peletier (oe), ~malcolm tucker

Filtered away from Hans
I need some advice.

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	sophia_peletier 2018-09-25 11:38 pm UTC (link)
	His wife is a future version of me. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lacey_burrows 2018-09-26 12:07 am UTC (link)
	That's different. Future you knows the station or the island. I'm sure she'd understand what happens when people are sent back in time. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	sophia_peletier 2018-09-26 06:09 am UTC (link)
	The thing is I think I'd be jealous. I mean the other me was having a baby. A BABY something that I am totally not ready for, but... I'm jealous. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lacey_burrows 2018-09-26 03:31 pm UTC (link)
	You do know yourself best. You could wait to see if the station lets your ages sync up again so you're both from the same stage of your relationship. Is it possible that you were surprised about the baby and that's affecting your thoughts? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	sophia_peletier 2018-09-27 09:05 am UTC (link)
	Would that be fair to him, with me feeling this way? Well, the baby was a few years ago. So I'm not surprised anymore, it's silly that I'm so salty about it, I know that. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lacey_burrows 2018-09-27 05:29 pm UTC (link)
	It's more fair than keeping things as they are and letting him think you're happy. Or breaking up for the sake of a wife he may never see again. The station doesn't allow for completely fair, or you'd both be at the same stage in life. Have you told him how you feel? It's not silly. Baby stuff can be confusing for anyone. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	sophia_peletier 2018-09-28 03:28 am UTC (link)
	No I haven't, I didn't want to run a risk of hurting him without talking to somebody first. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lacey_burrows 2018-09-28 05:59 pm UTC (link)
	That's smart. I let myself stay in the wrong relationship once without talking to anyone, and I ended up leaving someone at the altar. Not that I'm saying you're in the wrong relationship. If you need a place to stay after you talk to him, I have an extra room. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	sophia_peletier 2018-09-29 07:18 am UTC (link)
	See, I don't want to do that. But I haven't even thought about the alter since I found out he was married. Or at all since we got here, where I was looking at magazines and flowers everytime we got another door on the island. I don't know. Thank you, I'd appreciate that. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lacey_burrows 2018-09-29 06:19 pm UTC (link)
	When you were looking at magazines and flowers, were you thinking of your life with him or of the ceremony? If it was about him, you can think about the future you saw with him and if that's still what you want. If it was just the ceremony, then you might have your answer. Great. It could be fun to have a roommate. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	sophia_peletier 2018-09-30 09:33 am UTC (link)
	I don't know. Now that I think about it, I don't know. I don't think it was for just the ceremony. Yes. I can help at your diner too if you like? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lacey_burrows 2018-09-30 07:00 pm UTC (link)
	That would be wonderful. I'd really appreciate the help and the company. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	sophia_peletier 2018-10-01 04:16 am UTC (link)
	Now I just have to work up the nerve. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lacey_burrows 2018-10-01 04:32 pm UTC (link)
	Do you keep a diary or a journal? Writing out what you want to say might make you feel more prepared. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	sophia_peletier 2018-10-02 02:35 am UTC (link)
	I don't. I haven't in a while. I don't think I'd want to reread anything I'd write down. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lacey_burrows 2018-10-02 03:38 pm UTC (link)
	It's not for everyone. How about a mug of herbal tea or hot chocolate? It can be very calming. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	sophia_peletier 2018-10-03 12:10 am UTC (link)
	Hot chocolate would be great. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lacey_burrows 2018-10-03 12:24 am UTC (link)
	Great. I can put it on now, if you want to come over to the food court. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	sophia_peletier 2018-10-03 06:13 am UTC (link)
	I will, Thank you. (Reply to this) (Parent)

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