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Tweak says, "my hands are bananas"

Timothy Daryl Dixon (OC Marvel/TWD kid) (tim_dixon) wrote in compass_network,
@ 2015-11-25 03:38:00

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Filtered away from Mom and TJ
I've been thinking about getting a divorce.

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	like_a_hawk 2015-11-25 09:56 am UTC (link)
	Might want to give it a shot. Was a rough day for all of us, emotions get high, nobody's really themselves. I've been there, not going to tell you divorce isn't an option, but try not to make a decision without even trying to work through it. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	tim_dixon 2015-11-25 10:06 am UTC (link)
	I don't know if I can work through it. I supported him when he wanted to get out of his drug habit. And he can't be there for me when I want to get someone toxic out of my life. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	like_a_hawk 2015-11-25 10:22 am UTC (link)
	I just don't want you to have the same regrets I did back home. Just try talking, let him know how you feel now that you've both had some time to calm down. You're not going to lose anything by having a conversation. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	tim_dixon 2015-11-25 10:29 am UTC (link)
	I guess you're right. I just know if he yells that I'm going to yell back, and I just... want to avoid that part. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	like_a_hawk 2015-11-25 10:40 am UTC (link)
	So tell him that too. Let him know you can't handle yelling right now and if you think it's headin that way say that you need a break until you both calm down. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	tim_dixon 2015-11-25 10:54 am UTC (link)
	Alright. I might see about sharing the room with little me and Richie for a little bit. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Tim like_a_hawk 2015-11-25 10:56 am UTC (link)
	Well, you might not have to. I've got a crew coming Friday to build an addition, Clint thinks it'll only take a few days with everyone he's got. I was going to tell everyone on Thursday (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Dad tim_dixon 2015-11-25 11:03 am UTC (link)
	Oh yeah? Not for me... (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Tim like_a_hawk 2015-11-25 11:05 am UTC (link)
	Yes for you, originally one room was going to be so you had a place with some privacy and no stairs while you healed up, then we'd figure out what to do with it from there, but if you need it, it's yours. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Dad tim_dixon 2015-11-25 04:23 pm UTC (link)
	Stairs are hard. I have to go up on my butt, and it's harder to come down. Thanks Dad. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Dad like_a_hawk 2015-11-26 12:17 am UTC (link)
	I can't lie though, it's kind of funny to watch. Love you kid, whatever decision you end up making you know we'll support you, I just don't want you to realize a few weeks, months, years from now that it wasn't really the decision you wanted to make. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Dad tim_dixon 2015-11-26 02:54 am UTC (link)
	I thought I heard you covering up a snicker last time I slid down on my backside. I love you too Dad. I guess I was just hoping for what you and Mom have. That he'd stand by me no matter what. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

Dad

like_a_hawk
2015-11-26 03:01 am UTC (link)

Bucky does it now too. He thinks it's fun.

I know it's tough not to, but you can't compare your relationship to anyone else's Tim. Both your mom and I have had years and years of experience failing at relationships, we've been married before, some of it just comes down to having made these mistakes before we met each other. But if you two really love each other, it might be a little bit harder and you might have to work a little bit to get over those mistakes but if you two can do it, you would have something even more than we do.

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	Dad / Tim tim_dixon 2015-11-26 08:12 am UTC (link)
	I guess it would be to me too, if I didn't have to do it. I don't know. I saw how you were with her when she was real little. It's kinda like it was meant to be, I think. With you two. Everything else didn't work cause you were with the wrong people. What if TJ is the wrong person? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Dad / Tim like_a_hawk 2015-11-26 09:21 am UTC (link)
	You might be right, I'm not saying you definitely shouldn't do this, but I still think you should talk to him. You thought he was right enough that you married him, and maybe that wasn't quite right, but you shouldn't just give up. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Dad / Tim tim_dixon 2015-11-26 09:24 am UTC (link)
	Yeah, but back then I didn't know the supportive door didn't swing both ways. (Reply to this) (Parent)

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