I know it's tough not to, but you can't compare your relationship to anyone else's Tim. Both your mom and I have had years and years of experience failing at relationships, we've been married before, some of it just comes down to having made these mistakes before we met each other. But if you two really love each other, it might be a little bit harder and you might have to work a little bit to get over those mistakes but if you two can do it, you would have something even more than we do.