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xie_xie_xie posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]xie_xie_xie
Date: 2017-04-16 23:26
Subject: Keeping it alive
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Just making a post to keep this asylum alive to preserve the stories posted here.

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Ny posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]not_yet_defined
Date: 2015-06-20 13:41
Subject: (no subject)
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Not BJ related, but lesbian fandom related. I went to my first (and last as there will be no more) Xena Con this year. It was awesome. I wish I'd found the world of cons earlier in my fandom life. I would have loved to go to a QaF con.

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flamencanyc posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]flamencanyc
Date: 2008-08-02 22:05
Subject: We are not alone
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Tags:dyke night

Came across this article from The Village Voice today and thought some of you might find it interesting. Yet more evidence that we are not alone in our general proclivities, and various opinions about the reasons behind them. Makes me want to tell those women about B/J! ;)

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xie_xie_xie posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]xie_xie_xie
Date: 2008-08-01 22:57
Subject: What is wrong with us, oh lesbos?
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I can't believe I have let this community MOULDER for 23 weeks! WTF, lesbians? WTF?

Do we still love Brian and Justin???? Tell me immediately!

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libra2 posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]libra2
Date: 2008-02-21 22:20
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G-spot... discuss.

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king posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]kyliekris
Date: 2008-01-14 22:49
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May I present you...

....Mmmmmmonica )

Now, do you see why I have a bit of drool at the corner of my mouth right now?

Monica is...PERFECTION.

*is speechless* *faints*

ETA: icons, . Because I couldn't resist. And I think I'll be making more *_*

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firehead posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]firehead30
Date: 2008-01-12 22:57
Subject: Oh my Goddess, she is so hot
Security: Public
Location:sofa
Mood:thoughtful
Music:guitar fucking hero

I was being silly with [info]libra2 in [info]les_bj_anic and she said if I came up with a decent topic I should post it.

This is open to any and alllllllll no need for any specific sexual preference.

[info]rebeccama posted a very hot icon of Leda in leather, notice how Leda and leather just simply goes together......oh wait I got distracted, and I thought......

Who was your first girl crush? Who was the first, strong, sexy, beautiful, soft, luscious, intelligent, tortured anti-hero, fucking incredible woman who made you tingle, that you wanted to sink your hands into her hair (or rub her skull cause Riply had BAD!hair in Aliens)?

Mine was....as you all know....Ellen Riply from Aliens. I am still hoping that someday she will need me to help her save the world. *sigh*

Who was the first woman who made your heart beat that much faster, your body flush and your toes curl?

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libra2 posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]libra2
Date: 2008-01-12 22:39
Subject: Message from Brian and Justin
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The boys are wondering...

where did all the dykes, bi's, and honorary les_bj_ans go?

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xie_xie_xie posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]xie_xie_xie
Date: 2007-12-29 13:31
Subject: Melanie!
Security: Public
Tags:recs

[info]notreallyme10 posted some Melanie porn on her IJ a couple of weeks ago, and I totally missed it!

Not that I'm into Mel or anything.

You should read it immediately.

Xie

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xie_xie_xie posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]xie_xie_xie
Date: 2007-12-14 17:45
Subject: Dyke Night: The fag hag question
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At the original Dyke Night, the one in Season One at Babylon when Ted and Emmett go to "Dyke Night" with Melanie, they say to her that while it's been fun hanging out with her and she's been a great hag, the problem is, fag hags are supposed to be fun, and what with her pining over Lindsay and all, not so much with the fun.

Now, I've never been totally wild about the phrase "fag hag," as it's not ecactly pretty and it's often meant in an unflattering way. Although it's also often said with love.

I've always had gay male friends, and I've more than once said "If I were straight I'd be a fag hag." That's because I always kind of thought of fag hags as women who got crushes on/fell in love with gay men, more than just women who like to hang out with gay men.

So, I think we can all agree Debbie is a fag hag in general terms. And I would suspect most of us agree Daphne is Justin's hag -- although she's also his best friend, and I like the sound of that better.

But is Lindsay Brian's hag? Or just his friend and baby mama? Is Melanie Ted's hag, in S1 or ever? Or just his friend?

Can lesbians be fag hags? Does there have to be romantic/sexual attraction to be a "hag"?

All these things are perplexing me. What do you think?

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xie_xie_xie posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]xie_xie_xie
Date: 2007-12-07 11:06
Subject: The B/J love thang and a poll
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This is a slightly revised version of something I wrote in the comments section in the very first post I ever made to this asylum -- recycled here because we have some new members, and it was kind of lost and lonely down there. ;)

I find the whole Brian/Justin thing very strange for me, because I'm UTTERLY OBSESSED with them and write fiction about them and am just completely wild with fangirl squeeage about their sex scenes, and yet I have no context in my life for that. I don't want to touch them, I'm not attracted to Brian or Justin or the actors who play them, I don't read "slash" or gay porn or watch other gay couples, nothing. It's like its own unique phenomenon.

Sometimes I think this might make sense: As a lesbian, I'm used to seeing images of straight couples on TV and in movies, and it does nothing for me. I don't identify with it. Until QAF, we never really saw any same sex couples fall in love and fuck in such detail, with such amazing chemistry and with so much passion between them -- and the love, did I mention the love? I may be a dyke but I'm still a girl. I like the love part. The combination of sex and love is something I find very appealing, and this was actually the first time I ever saw that. Over and over and over, with characters whose ongoing story I was invited into for five seasons.

It was just amazingly powerful and really changed my life in many ways.

I mean, more than just creating this asylum. ;)

Also, I have a poll.....

Doesn't Xie always have a poll? )

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xie_xie_xie posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]xie_xie_xie
Date: 2007-11-25 22:37
Subject: A fangirl dates
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So, I can no longer date outside the fandom. When I started watching QAF I was dating a woman who actually was a pretty big QAF fan, but not THAT KIND of fan. If you know what I mean and ummm... I know that you do.

When with non-believers, I feel like I'm constantly trying to hide how I feel about Brian and Justin. And at first I thought this was because I'm a lesbian and obviously must hide my obsession with a boy/boy pairing from other lesbians, but then I thought: Yo, don't straight women feel the need to hide their obsession with a boy/boy pairing from the men in their lives?

And does this mean bisexual women feel they must hide it from everyone?

Tell me, fangirls and honorary fangirls: Can you date outside the fandom? If so, do you feel you must hide your obsession?

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xie_xie_xie posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]xie_xie_xie
Date: 2007-11-19 12:12
Subject: New lesbian-themed icon
Security: Public

See new icon made for me by [info]youbetterwiseup kthnx.

You can share if you credit her. She has just started making icons and they're COMPLETELY BRILLIANT ... check them out here.

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Ny posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]not_yet_defined
Date: 2007-11-17 10:14
Subject: OT Pimpage - Justin Challenge Fics Are Up!
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Tags:pimpage

The fantastic [info]xie_xie_xie has posted all of the Justin Challenge fics over at [info]qaf_challenges!!

There are 15 entries by 14 humans and 1 very talented dog :D So go check them out, and be sure to leave all the authors lots of love for their hard work.

15 Justin Love Challenge Links

Thank you, Xie!

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xie_xie_xie posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]xie_xie_xie
Date: 2007-11-16 20:18
Subject: Dyke Night: The Big Justin Love
Security: Public

What is it about Justin? Tell me why you love him. Tell me why Brian loves him. Tell me why dykes love him.

I'll be over here squeeing over all the fic rolling in for my Justin!worship challenge, which I'll be posting starting at midnight California time!

Love,

Xie

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xie_xie_xie posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]xie_xie_xie
Date: 2007-11-11 21:46
Subject: And Now For Something Completely Different and Yet, Still Lesbianic
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Tags:recs

Since [info]pendulumchanges started a whole new asylum called [info]qaf_music, I'm going to do something new for Dyke Night from now on. And it will still be on Friday nights, but I just couldn't get it done this weekend because I had too much work.

I have a thing that bugs me big time about fic in which Gus is ripped away from his parents, Melanie and Lindsay, so that Brian and Justin can raise him.

I understand that some people find Lindsay or Melanie, as characters, unsympathetic, and I don't object to that. We all have our personal likes and dislikes of individuals. But when I see this "gay friendly" fandom express contempt for them AS LESBIANS, when I see authors wrench their child away or find them feeble and inadequate as parents, and readers squee over that, it makes me want to cry or, you know, blow something up. It shows a profound disrespect for queer families, which were the cornerstone of the entire Queer as Folk message.


And a truly lesbianic warning: Bring tissues.

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xie_xie_xie posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]xie_xie_xie
Date: 2007-11-10 02:17
Subject: Slightly late with Dyke Night...
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Okay, so, I just finished an article that was due today and it's ummm... 2:17 AM. My editor gets up at 5 AM so let's just say I got it in with very little time to spare.

What this means is that I was working my butt off all day and night, and though I did find the time to squee over my new icons from [info]badbadpixie, I didn't get Dyke Night done. And since [info]pendulumchanges has started the cool new [info]qaf_music asylum, I decided to do something totally different and non-musical for Dyke Night from now on, and post my obsessive QAF playlist stuff over there instead.

So for this week only, it looks like Dyke Night is Saturday. See you then!

Love,

Xie

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xie_xie_xie posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]xie_xie_xie
Date: 2007-11-06 18:46
Subject: What kind of lesbian are you?
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What kind of lesbian are you?

Okay, some of you little Brian Kinney-worshipping dykes are now going "THE KIND THAT SLEEPS WITH WOMEN," and that's a beautiful thing, I am so with you.

But [info]firehead30 and I were lying around in bed in Seattle and we were taking this quiz on her laptop (oh shut up, did you think all we did was shop for shoes?) and while she was very happy with her result they got me ALL wrong, but regardless, I want to know: What kind of lesbian are you?

This is a total ONE HUNDRED QUESTION quiz! And seriously even if you are not an actual lesbian you should take it, because it will tell you what kind of lesbian you WOULD BE, and that's fun too.

So take it and tell me what kind of lesbian you are.... the quiz.

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pendulumchanges posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]pendulumchanges
Date: 2007-11-02 22:47
Subject: Dyke Night!
Security: Public
Music:Beware of the Boys
Tags:dyke night

Ah, sorry this is coming so late. [info]xie_xie_xie is out of town and I almost forgot that she asked me to take over for tonight!

Happy Friday ladies! Put your dancing shoes on! Let's see the playlist of QAF songs that make you want to shake your groove thang!

I always wanna dance when I hear... )

Which songs get your hips shaking and your feet moving?

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xie_xie_xie posting in Les_BJ_anic
User: [info]xie_xie_xie
Date: 2007-10-26 19:29
Subject: Dyke Night! The big Brian Kinney love
Security: Public
Tags:dyke night

Sorry this is late... I was at my nephew's birthday party. They had a jumpy house and a slide. I mean.... talk about the antithesis of Dyke Night. ;)

One of the places where I work is a big company that's half dykes and half gay men. And all the dykes love Brian Kinney and wake up every morning and ask themselves, "What would Brian Kinney do?" (I won't tell you what the men think, other than that the phrases "bad role model for the gay community" and "Peter Pan" come up a lot. Pffft.)

So tonight is a special Brian Kinney edition of Dyke Night! This is a playlist of songs from QAF that make me think of Brian. I'd love to know what songs remind you of Brian, and why. But first... here's mine:


Now please, I beg of you.... your Brian songs!

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