A Writer's Resource

Warning--this is an adult-related topic.  Don't follow these links unless you are over the age of consent for your area, and you understand what BDSM is.

There are many BDSM checklists online.  Probably at least as many as there are fandoms.  Each has its own leanings, so if a certain checklist doesn't have something you expect to be obvious, keep looking for others.  There's more than enough to choose from.  If you are looking for variety, I'd suggest looking at three at the very least, just to get some different views.

These are great not just for ideas for a "negotiation session" between a couple, but also for ideas when the tank is running low and you need something sexy to be going on.

My BDSM Check List - A VERY long online list that actually allows you to save all the things you marked on it once you've finished (but again--very long, so it takes a while to fill in), and/or send it to anyone you wish.

Latches BDSM Checklist - much shorter alphabetical list, and meant only for printing out and filling in.

Soul's Haven Printable BDSM Checklist - actually has a few specific versions as well as an overall 200-item version.