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Henrik Mikaelson (diedtooyoung) wrote in wariscomingcom,
@ 2014-10-19 09:41:00

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alison hendrix, damon salvatore, frigga, henrik mikaelson, jesse hauptman, stiles stilinski

No siblings
I know that I should not because she does terrible things and wants my brothers and sister dead, but I miss my mother.

What do you do if you miss people that you should not?

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	bamfqueen 2014-10-19 05:27 pm UTC (link)
	You can not help but hold affection for your mother, little dove. She made many mistakes, but she is still your mother. You continue to hold her in your heart and hope that she was sorry for the things she did wrong. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	diedtooyoung 2014-10-19 05:29 pm UTC (link)
	I do. I do not think I can ever let her out of my heart. I do not want to most days. Only when I am very angry. But then I miss her more. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	bamfqueen 2014-10-19 05:46 pm UTC (link)
	It's alright to want your mother in the darkest of times. For all of her faults, she did love you and that matters most. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	diedtooyoung 2014-10-19 05:47 pm UTC (link)
	I want to see her again but I do not want her to come here. It would not be good. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	bamfqueen 2014-10-19 05:56 pm UTC (link)
	No, I doubt it would. I think your best option is to remember her fondly and love her, but to have faith and trust in your siblings. They love you a great deal. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	diedtooyoung 2014-10-19 05:58 pm UTC (link)
	I feel as though I betray them by still loving her. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	bamfqueen 2014-10-19 06:30 pm UTC (link)
	Absolutely not. Sometimes, people we love do things we don't approve of. That doesn't change how we feel about them. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	diedtooyoung 2014-10-19 06:32 pm UTC (link)
	Oh. I suppose that is true. I do not approve of all they do and I still love them. (Reply to this) (Parent)

	runswithwolves 2014-10-19 05:39 pm UTC (link)
	She was still your mom. It's okay to feel however you feel. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	diedtooyoung 2014-10-19 05:46 pm UTC (link)
	I miss her but I do not want her to ever come here. If she doesn't though I will never see her again. (Reply to this) (Parent)

	suburbsclone 2014-10-19 08:35 pm UTC (link)
	She's your mother. No matter how terrible or difficult she may have been, she was still your mother. You can't turn off that attachment, no matter how much you may want to. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	diedtooyoung 2014-10-19 08:57 pm UTC (link)
	Is it only for mothers though? Because I do not feel that way for my father. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

alphadaughter
2014-10-19 10:31 pm UTC (link)

It's definitely not just for mothers. I don't have that kind of feeling at all for my mom, but if my dad wasn't here, I'd probably kind of go crazy missing him. I think it depends on the person, how they treated you, those kinds of things. It's just, usually, moms are way more lovey and caring and stuff so it's easier to attached to them. ~~Except mine because God no~~

You're totally allowed to miss her, btw, even if your siblings don't. You don't feel what they feel because your memory of who she was isn't the same as theirs and that's okay.

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	diedtooyoung 2014-10-19 11:57 pm UTC (link)
	I do not miss my father but I am glad yours is here for you, Jesse. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	alphadaughter 2014-10-20 12:10 am UTC (link)
	Thanks, Henrik. I'm sorry you miss your mom. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	diedtooyoung 2014-10-20 12:12 am UTC (link)
	It will pass but thank you. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	alphadaughter 2014-10-20 12:19 am UTC (link)
	You're welcome <3 Hey, do you wanna hang out when I get out of school tomorrow? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	diedtooyoung 2014-10-20 12:22 am UTC (link)
	I do not think I can. It will be my day with Rebekah and Stefan. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	alphadaughter 2014-10-20 12:58 am UTC (link)
	Maybe later this week then. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	diedtooyoung 2014-10-20 01:00 am UTC (link)
	I could do something on Wednesday. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	alphadaughter 2014-10-20 01:20 am UTC (link)
	Wednesday totally works. Maybe we could go to the park. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	diedtooyoung 2014-10-20 01:51 am UTC (link)
	I just need to let Nik and Caroline know! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	alphadaughter 2014-10-20 02:17 am UTC (link)
	Awesome, I look forward to it. :D (Reply to this) (Parent)

	suburbsclone 2014-10-20 12:55 am UTC (link)
	No, I don't believe it is. Sometimes you find yourself loving a person, no matter what. I don't think you can change what's in your heart. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	diedtooyoung 2014-10-20 12:57 am UTC (link)
	Even when they do bad things. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	suburbsclone 2014-10-21 02:06 am UTC (link)
	Maybe even more so then. (Reply to this) (Parent)

	roseredvampire 2014-10-20 02:28 am UTC (link)
	Oh honey. At the end of the day, she was your mother, and she took care of you and loved you. You only knew her as a loving mother. It's normal to miss her. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	diedtooyoung 2014-10-20 02:33 am UTC (link)
	I do, Ms. Rose. (Reply to this) (Parent)

	voodoolobotomy 2014-10-20 02:29 am UTC (link)
	It's okay to miss your mom, little dude. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	diedtooyoung 2014-10-20 02:34 am UTC (link)
	It does not help anything to do so. (Reply to this) (Parent)

	someonehasto 2014-10-20 07:44 pm UTC (link)
	I get it. But, your mother was crazy, Little Mikaelson. Trust me. I met her. I mean, seriously what kind of mother turns their kids into monsters, only to decide to kill them all when it doesn't work out the way they want? Parents are sucky, and largely not worth the effort in missing them. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	diedtooyoung 2014-10-20 10:10 pm UTC (link)
	She was not always like that. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	someonehasto 2014-10-20 10:23 pm UTC (link)
	Maybe. I know Beks used to miss her. And then Mama Original came back, and decided to right her wrongs. But, any parent who ever considers killing their children, sucks. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	diedtooyoung 2014-10-20 10:25 pm UTC (link)
	I do not want to talk about it anymore. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Henrik someonehasto 2014-10-20 10:45 pm UTC (link)
	Doesn't mean you can't miss her. I missed Stefan inspite of everything we put each other through. Sometimes you can't help but love people, even when they suck. Just, parents trying to kill their kids isn't something that only happened with your siblings. And, my dad was successful. I don't think he expected what happened next though. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Damon diedtooyoung 2014-10-20 10:49 pm UTC (link)
	Like my brothers and sister. They hurt one another a lot. I am sorry. Why did he want you dead? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

Henrik

someonehasto
2014-10-20 10:56 pm UTC (link)

He hated vampires. And, I'd fallen in love with one. We were trying to save her from the council who were capturing all the vampires, and burning them in the church.

He decided we were better off dead, than in love with a demon. Don't be sorry. I'm not. Would have preferred it wasn't my dick of a father that killed me. But, I never did get on with him, anyway. Stefan was his favorite. I was just a disappointment. How disappointed he must have been in Stef that day.

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	Damon diedtooyoung 2014-10-20 10:58 pm UTC (link)
	Fathers like being disappointed in their children. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Henrik someonehasto 2014-10-21 07:37 pm UTC (link)
	No. Just the bad ones. You and me. We had bad ones. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Damon diedtooyoung 2014-10-22 01:18 am UTC (link)
	I guess so. (Reply to this) (Parent)