Nik
Considering I seem to be the one she hates the most, it's the most logical solution.
When was the last time I actually threatened anyone? You threaten at least twice a week, obviously, but I don't. I only make it clear that if anyone hurts my family or friends, I'll rip all their limbs off and set them on fire. Which isn't a threat. It's a promise of retaliation if, and only if, my loved ones are hurt. Totally different.
It's predictable. And no one wants us to be predictable. It's so dull.