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Tweak says, "Whats Your Beef?"

Allana Solo (sanguinesolo) wrote in wariscomingcom,
@ 2011-05-06 12:15:00

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For future reference, re: Are We Going to Help With the Soldiers and All Other Future Conflicts

Just saying.

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	jeditraitor 2011-05-06 05:27 pm UTC (link)
	Really? (Reply to this) (Thread)

	sanguinesolo 2011-05-06 05:31 pm UTC (link)
	Well, it was getting boring to have this conversation in the same medium a million times. I've got friends here you know, ones who aren't Jedi and don't have powers, who I can't protect every second of every day. Don't tell people I'm not going to help them, okay? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	jeditraitor 2011-05-06 05:36 pm UTC (link)
	Did I say you couldn't help? I just thought you'd agree. Perhaps I was wrong (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	sanguinesolo 2011-05-06 05:39 pm UTC (link)
	Yeah but did you ask me before you started using the "we"? Or aunt Jaina? She said she didn't need an apology. If she asks I'll back her up, always, but if she doesn't want one? I don't think stirring all that up again is a good idea. Especially right now. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	jeditraitor 2011-05-06 05:49 pm UTC (link)
	So she should just be treated like that, should she? That's ridiculous. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

tricksterjaina
2011-05-06 09:47 pm UTC (link)

I'm not being treated like anything, Jacen. It happened, they made their points, and I understand why they're upset, even if I don't think it was quite bad enough to warrant the severity of their responses. It's done.

First of all, she's right - you can't always speak for all of us. Sometimes it's not an issue, but if it comes to saving people or not saving them based on some arbitrary reason, we all need to make the decisions ourselves. This also includes demanding apologies for something that hasn't been an issue for me since it settled.

Secondly, if I want someone to apologize, the last thing I need to do is demand it, and refuse to help unless I get one. That's common sense, Jacen - you don't demand apologies. The ones you get won't be real, and most of the time you won't even get the fake ones because people have their pride.

Third, I'm helping regardless of their apologies. It's not for them, even though I don't think they deserve to have this on them, regardless of the personality conflicts that may have arisen. I'm helping with this for me, because I'm tired of walking around worried I'll get arrested again - and for Anna. I don't want to see her lose her powers. I would suggest you help us, but that's your decision to make.

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	jeditraitor 2011-05-06 09:53 pm UTC (link)
	I didn't think I was speaking for all of you. I had thought you'd all agree. Apparently I was wrong. I'm actually pretty accustomed to demanding what I require. Real or not the apologies tend to hold. Pride only goes so far I've said I'll help. Not that I understand why you're all so up in arms at me (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

tricksterjaina
2011-05-06 10:58 pm UTC (link)

I'm sorry if it seems like we're attacking you. That's not my intent. But ...you can't possibly assume we would agree to allow things to get worse here - or an ally lose her powers fixing something we could easily at least help with - over something as petty as an apology, can you? Think about it.

I didn't realize you'd offered to help already, sorry. I'm having a hard time catching up with... everything relating to this discussion. It's a lot to keep up with. I'm glad you will, though.

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	jeditraitor 2011-05-07 01:27 pm UTC (link)
	I am thinking about it. And it bothers me that these people don't respect us. But I offered to help so lets leave it there before I say something I'll regret later (Reply to this) (Parent)

	jedislight 2011-05-06 05:47 pm UTC (link)
	Really?..A venn diagram? (Reply to this) (Thread)

	sanguinesolo 2011-05-08 05:57 am UTC (link)
	I just learned how to make them in paint. Save it to your computer, it might be handy to have later. (Reply to this) (Parent)

	Allana tricksterjaina 2011-05-06 09:47 pm UTC (link)
	This is why you're my favorite niece. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	Jaina sanguinesolo 2011-05-08 06:00 am UTC (link)
	I thought it was funny too. Clearly he does not have a proper appreciation for visual aides. (Reply to this) (Parent)

	Allana rebelliousforce 2011-05-07 12:55 am UTC (link)
	I think I'm more amused than I should be. (Reply to this) (Thread)

	Grandma sanguinesolo 2011-05-08 06:01 am UTC (link)
	Well, I promise not to tell? Though amusement is what I was going for! (Reply to this) (Parent)