Figured I'd ask before I answered anything, homme. God knows I share too much about me, but I got rien to hide. I'm Remy, Candy's boyfriend.
That said? I think, from what Candy says, you had to basically be a parent when you too damn young to be one. I can't imagine you didn't do the best you could. Sometimes kids need shit that can't come from brothers or whomever.
You should find time to just go nuts once in a while - do whatever you want that ain't illegal. Might get you more focused instead of putting all your time into les enfants.
I feel bound to say that both me and Candy think you're hot, though, so you should have your fun with somebody else 'less you want things to get crazy, oui?