Yeah, that's easier to deal with. Although sometimes that can create confusion too.
Like...my boyfriend here is a guy I dreamed about, but he's not my boyfriend in the Dreams, even though we're pretty close to being the same people there are we are here. Details have changed obviously, but I feel like we're the same people mostly in terms of personality, and I know that the Other!me would've totally boned him if the opportunity had ever come up, but it never did, so. I sometimes wonder if I only like him because of that? Like am I living out Other!me's fantasy? Or is it my fantasy too?