Roy Harper is No One's Sidekick (imnosidekick) wrote in valarnet,
@ 2013-04-28 16:59:00

Current mood:	blah
Entry tags:	beleg cuthalion, jean grey (phoenix), joe simmons, roy harper (red arrow) ii, tomoe hotaru (sailor saturn), zevran arainai

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So why is it that when you finally call someone out on the fact that they've replaced you, when you've tried to avoid bringing up that fact for months now, that you're the one who ends up feeling shitty? I mean, Hell, it's not as if he doesn't have a RIGHT to have a romance and be happy. Hell *I* have one and I'm happy. I just...

It's... Just that I'm no longer any active part of the guy's life and he's stopped giving a shit about me and it HURTS and when I finally tell him how I feel, I'm the one who feels guilty about it?

I'm...confused. And NOT the one at fault.

	imnosidekick 2013-04-29 02:13 am UTC (link)
	I...don't see it as any kind of growth I guess. More of a moving on that happened as a conscious choice in my head. Maybe if I step back I'll get the perspective you're talking about. It's hard though. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	heartofflame 2013-04-29 02:22 am UTC (link)
	A personal relationship is not always visible to the outside. He might have needed to focus on that and letting that grow. Not every part of life needs to be public. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	imnosidekick 2013-04-29 04:03 am UTC (link)
	There IS that. It's more...frustration I guess. Among other stuff talking. I...probably jumped the gun. (Reply to this) (Parent)

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