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Tweak says, "Simma down now! Simma down! "

Roy Harper is No One's Sidekick (imnosidekick) wrote in valarnet,
@ 2013-04-28 16:59:00

Current mood:	blah
Entry tags:	beleg cuthalion, jean grey (phoenix), joe simmons, roy harper (red arrow) ii, tomoe hotaru (sailor saturn), zevran arainai

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So why is it that when you finally call someone out on the fact that they've replaced you, when you've tried to avoid bringing up that fact for months now, that you're the one who ends up feeling shitty? I mean, Hell, it's not as if he doesn't have a RIGHT to have a romance and be happy. Hell *I* have one and I'm happy. I just...

It's... Just that I'm no longer any active part of the guy's life and he's stopped giving a shit about me and it HURTS and when I finally tell him how I feel, I'm the one who feels guilty about it?

I'm...confused. And NOT the one at fault.

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	beleg_cuthalion 2013-04-29 12:41 am UTC (link)
	Maybe you can find a quiet place and try to say something to him, tactfully, and explain more precisely how it hurt you. After giving yourselves some time to think on things, without pushing matters again, right away? (Reply to this) (Thread)

	imnosidekick 2013-04-29 12:44 am UTC (link)
	That probably IS better than what I'm trying. I don't know, my coping skills are SHIT. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	beleg_cuthalion 2013-04-29 12:50 am UTC (link)
	I find that sometimes distance can offer better perspective. Look at it this way, it's like firing a bow. You want to be further away so you know what to aim at, and not have your target trying to eat your face! (Reply to this) (Parent)

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