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Tweak says, "The safe word is purple."

matt holt (encrypting) wrote in thedisplaced,
@ 2018-04-08 20:09:00

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!network post, asami sato, furiosa, lance, matt holt, pidge gunderson, princess allura, takashi shirogane / shiro, tony stark / iron man (904913)

TEAM VOLTRON + FRIENDS

So [...] my friends at the military are dead. And my lab is gone, like it never existed.

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	shiro+matt spacedad 2018-04-10 08:16 pm UTC (link)
	I think the two of you likely need to come up with some work boundaries. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

shiro+matt

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2018-04-10 09:12 pm UTC (link)

Probably, but also, what if we have an argument? Or if we break up? If his girlfriend shows up, he's going to be with her again. Which is fine, I knew that when I asked him to the ball. But the more entangled our lives are if/when that happens, the more complicated things might get.

Maybe I should just work somewhere else. Or maybe I'm overthinking this. Am I overthinking this? This wasn't supposed to be a complicated relationship.

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	shiro+matt spacedad 2018-04-12 01:05 am UTC (link)
	I don't think you're overthinking it. If it's going to distract you from the work, I'd consider going somewhere else. Otherwise, I'd talk through each of these scenarios with him and figure out game plans for them. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	shiro+matt encrypting 2018-04-12 01:53 am UTC (link)
	Okay. Good. He also answered a lot of my questions and it looks like we're kind of on the same page. So I might try it on like a part-time or probationary basis and see what it's like. And if it really isn't working for us I'll probably quit to prioritize him over the job. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	shiro+matt spacedad 2018-04-12 03:53 am UTC (link)
	Am I allowed to ask how serious things have gotten? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	shiro+matt encrypting 2018-04-12 04:14 am UTC (link)
	Of course you're allowed to ask. I probably would tell you even if you didn't. Apparently we're at the stage where he uses the word 'boyfriend' and his friend wants to intimidate me. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	shiro+matt spacedad 2018-04-13 02:35 am UTC (link)
	Should I intimidate back? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	shiro+matt encrypting 2018-04-13 03:02 am UTC (link)
	I don't think that's necessary. (Reply to this) (Parent)

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