That's the way I read the scene, but my reaction to is is very different from yours. Winick is my go-to Jason writer, and I'm not above wanting some gender equality in my comics wrt sexual abuse. I also think given Jason's life on the streets, it's very possible at he encountered sexual abuse, at least as a threat, and it doesn't feel fair to avoid the issue.
I didn't know about a); d'you have an issue number or something? The Jason kinda completist in me is interested.
d) Becomes Robin and then all he wants to do is FIND HIS REAL MOMMY
That never ends well in the Batfamily. Never ever ever ever. Too bad Cass didn't get the memo.
e) "Disobeys" Batman coz he's an impulsive teen (OH NOES! HE SHOULD DIE FOR THAT)
Having not yet read the entirety of a Death in the Family, may I ask what it was? Because I got the feeling that he 'disobeyed' Batman's orders by staying with his mum, like Bruce had told him to, and put on the Robin suit, which Batman hadn't told him to.
g) Tossed in Lazarus pit by Talia and also made out with her, which may or may not be a good thing.
You know Jason's Bruce issues? I'd call it a bad thing. As a wild guess, and given Jason's history of worst karma ever. And it was more Talia kissing him out of the blue than anything reciprocated.