"It just bugs me that people are going to see this as a terrible problem since it's BND" Forgive me, my mind is very sleep deprived right now, and I'm having a hard time wrapping my mind around this sentence for some reason - I'm not a fervent BND opponent looking to angrily disagree with whatever u said here, I'm just not 100% sure what it is exactly you said here
but anyway, temporary dyslexia aside . . . yes, holding the title of a "hero" would be very demanding on the hero in question and his friends and family but here's another thing to consider - imagine if you were indeed a masked hero like spiderman, and people were reading a comic about you and could see all of your actions and thoughts u might not have guilt issues like Peter, but your other faults would be very visible, and readers would probably wonder why the hell you can't get over certain things Peter's only human (well, human with spider-powers anyway), so I think that this fault is very plausible and not easily gotten over