I know the Hal, Barry and Bruce one is I'm guessing pre-COIE (and so no longer in continuity) but it's panels like that that make Hal's "I never liked Bruce" stuff in "Cry for Justice" suck.
They've made it clear that Bruce never liked Hal, they're just unclear as to exactly why. John said "Hal was only one who never bought what you're selling." Meaning Hal, being "without fear," didn't see Batman as anything other than a man in a bat costume. Flashbacks from BLACKEST NIGHT show Hal's light-based powers clashing with Batman's "hide in shadows" ability. Or it could be as simple as Bruce being annoyed Hal got his powers literally handed to him by a dying alien.
IMHO, a lot of "Batman as a jerk" comes from Batman figuring "None of the good guys like me, so I just won't like them back." And from there is a short path to "I hate myself and the world and everyone in it!"