Ah! See, I was thinking of how Chuck Dixon likes to overwrite canon to make it so Dick always loved Babs and never Kory (frex, Nightwing: Year One). I've never really been involved with ship wars because I never knew who "Kory" was*, or her importance to Dick until Scans Daily, at which point I saw that she was often being ignored for Babs.
*I knew who Starfire was, but I was all "lol, who's this Kory chick?"