None of the "risky behavior" that you attribute to the victim in question is mentioned in the OP's post. What you're doing is attributing certain behavior to the victim and then using that as justification. This is textbook victim-blaming and, while we respect that a wide range of opinions can (and will) be expressed in this community, certain attitudes are damaging towards our ethos of making this community "LGBT-friendly, anti-racist, anti-ableist, woman-friendly and otherwise discrimination and harrassment free."
As such we are freezing this particular thread as you do not appear to recognize what about your behavior is unacceptable within that ethos.