Victim-blaming unknownscribler, it's probably important at this juncture to remind you Scans_Daily's ethos encourages anti-oppression. The points you theorize in your debate in this thread could be seen as victim-blaming and, as such, we would actively support valtyr calling you out on this matter. While you might not see yourself as victim-blaming or supporting sexist views, that is certainly how this discussion is coming across and, on a predominantly female friendly community your comments ("she was primed", "she was hot and ready to go", etc) certainly read as offensive and unenlightened.
Feminism 101 has a FAQ which touches on the subject if the link above doesn't clarify things clearly enough.
I hope you'll take time to read the links and recognize why your comments have made members of this community uncomfortable.