Re: Arilou_skiff..Oh you have no idea..
Met someone at a bar, went to the club next door. I don't know the details of the night out, obviously, but it's pretty normal to meet up with your friends at a bar and then go on to a club.
If money was an issue, why on earth would she be paying the inevitable cover charges involved in going clubbing?
Because she likes to dance? Because she wants to spend time with her friends? Because she wants to meet someone? Because she had a flyer for free entry? Because her friend said, "Come on, you can't go home yet, I'll pay your cover charge,"? Drinking: not the primary reason for going to clubs and bars.
And if she's told the 1st brother something then referenced it with the 2nd brother and he's evaded/dodged/fluffed the reply then she's less likely to spot the inconsistency liquored up than sober.
Or she might assume he's had a drink, or that the loud music generally found in clubs is causing communication difficulties.
Condoms, gloves & dental dams break, aren't used properly or aren't used at all: that's why it's "safer sex" not "safe sex"
So? If she's using protection properly, which we have no reason to conclude she wasn't, it's still not 'very' risky. And that's not the point; when listing the risks of casual sex, few people will come up with 'Also the guy might turn out to be his identical twin and then you'll feel violated.' It's not a reasonable risk to take into account.
She was hot and ready to go.
Er... citation needed?
While skeezy, I'd wager that most people on the pull who have the opportunity to tap something like that are going to go for it to some degree.
Okay! You know what, you clearly have a social circle that is radically different from mine, because most of the men and women I know would be horrified by this kind of thing, and I know a fair few people who are cool with casual sex and going out to find it.
Also, she didn't arrange to meet the guy in the second bar, she happened to bump into his brother by accident and he's done all the "right" things from that point onwards to get her into bed.
Wait, I thought she was 'hot and ready to go' already? Make up your mind.
Which is in turn no different to going to see 3 Kings expecting a buddy heist comedy and getting something much closer to M*A*S*H as long as I had a good time.
I can assure you that it is different. I'm just not sure I can explain why to someone who equates 'getting sex by deception' to 'ambiguously marketed film'. Because, wow.
However, I can tell you honestly that more than a few people I know upon discovering themselves in the situation would seriously consider or outright ask for a threesome because, well, twins.
If they found out before the sex? Sure. If they found out afterwards, well, I don't think they'd willingly have sex with someone who's already shown they'll lie to get sex.