Re: Arilou_skiff..Oh you have no idea.. She's bar hopping
Really? The original poster said 'on a night out' and 'a guy at the bar'. This does not equate to bar-hopping. Further I've had plenty of nights out at bars where I didn't drink alcohol at all, due to money or having to be up early next day; it's not particularly unusual. There seems no reason to conclude she was very drunk apart from it not occurring to her that someone was pretending to be their identical twin, which was not a conclusion a lot of people would come to sober.
Why bother putting the effort in repriming the situation when it's already been primed for you, especially if you just want a quick fuck?
...because ...it is morally wrong to deceive people to get them to do stuff they otherwise wouldn't? Sorry, is that a genuine question on your part? She's not a pump, she's a woman who was interested in hooking up with a particular man and through deception hooked up with another.
landed in his lap
Either you're entirely making up that she actually dumped herself in his lap, or you're describing the chance to dupe a woman into sex as some kind of wonderful opportunity. Neither's really a good thing.
But it does make her a risk taker, and risky behaviour sometimes comes back to bite you in the arse
Whaaat? Leaving aside that we don't know if she wanted casual sex or had the idea of maybe getting into a relationship with this guy, having sppropriately protected sex is not very risky at all. And you know what, if you take a risk and someone actively does something bad to you, that is wrong of them and cannot be waved off as 'risky behaviour coming back to bite you in the arse'.