Okay, number one, my idea of Norman rising up as realistic meant in a fantasy world where Aliens were close to destroying Earth. I think that if we were that close to extinction and a person got the final blow on that threat, that no matter what they did previously they'd be a hero. I fail to see how that makes me hate humanity.
Second, I KNOW twenty somethings like Peter. I've met some and I'm related to some. I don't drink, much, and I don't smoke, nor do I go to strip clubs and objectify women. Just because I belive that many twenty somethins, many who read Spider-Man may have casual sex, which I have no problem with, get drunk, unless you drive I have no issue with it, doesn't mean I'm some guy out of a Judd Apatow movie. I love Spider-Man because he's a normal guy, with normal problems,who also has ABnormal problems, and issues and he still fights for what's right.